Love Life – My most Difficult Area to Manifest…

Love Life – My most Difficult Area to Manifest…

2012.? ?

I was in despair.


Another romance had gone from Fab to Flop within a few months.

“What’s wrong with me?” I moaned while crying my eyes out.


I had tried it all.


Internet dating. Singles dinners. Meeting people through friends.


I had used all of the magical Manifesting tools I'd been teaching others - I created a vision board, wrote in my journal about what I wanted, and visualized.?

I acted “as if” by making space in my cupboard for his clothes.? I did woo-woo?“new moon” ceremonies.


Nothing!

And I was getting irate – “I’m teaching others how to manifest what they want!? Why is it not happening for me?”? I would lament.


2013.

And the frogs were popping into my life like popcorn. (Yay!????)

Yet when I kissed them…

Not one prince!

They all remained frogs??????


When the next one appeared, I thought, “This guy is it!”…. except a few weeks later, I found out he was still married and going through a divorce.


I cried. ?


But I knew I had to draw the line.? No compromising.? No married men. No matter how “right” he may seem.


It was at that moment that I had a super “a-ha” realisation…?


It’s not them.? It’s me.? Something is “not clicking” with me.? ?


And then a question emerged:

“What if I start a journey of finding love inside myself?? Instead of looking for it in an outside mate or partner?”


So I started…?I had such shifts, revelations and deep internal journeys?that I decided to invite others on my journey, too. ?


And that's how the Gem Program originated?- a program to build your self-love, self-esteem and self-confidence.


It may sound cliché – but the journey to finding love in your life and manifesting the partner you desire really does start with YOU.??? ?


In fact the journey to manifesting ANYTHING that you want - in your career, health, wealth, relationships, family, purpose, creativity - starts with YOU and doing the Inner Work.


I ran the first Gem program with over 60 people in October 2013.?


In April 2014, my soul-mate partner and love, Geoffrey, manifested.


The falling in love and the bliss period for the first 4 years together was amazing.?And, like all relationships, we've been through immense challenges and growth (particularly in these past 4 covid years).


A few weeks ago, we celebrated our 10-year anniversary… and I’m so grateful for this deep and loving relationship with Geoff?and that I did the Inner Work in 2013.


The Moral of the Story is:


I stopped looking EXTERNALLY for the man/ soulmate/ partner


I started doing the Internal and Inner work, and then...

BANG…. What I was wanting arrived.


I'll?be running a LIVE 27-Day?Gem program from next Tuesday 4?June?until Monday 1 July.




And this is not only about your Love-Life!? Whatever you are struggling with.?


Wherever you are self-sabotaging...


...?whether it is your career or health or family or business or money...


...?when you do the "Inner Work", so many of the 'external struggles' shift.? (At times, it feels like magic.)


Registration for this Program closes on Tuesday 4 June,?book your spot.


?P.S. In case you're curious, here are two pictures of Geoff and I...? (then in 2014 and now in 2024)...


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I was SO excited when he arrived because not only was he and our relationship even better than I'd been dreaming it… He is super gorgeous looking, too. ??


No matter WHAT you want to change in your life - your work situation, your home, your money, whatever - Doing the "Inner Work" is more important than trying to change ANYTHING in the external world - like your hair, your city, your dating habits, your job etc.


Join me for a short - 27 days - and affordable program that will really shift your life - link in bio!

Dr Thomas Oosthuizen

Business Development Specialist | Extra-ordinary thinker & value creator

5 个月

Its so rewarding to see. You give to so many people. You deserve it ????

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