Love To Hate. Hate To Love.

Those who love to hate, ironically hate to love. It's a vicious cycle. You want to get people on your side? Say what you hate, and people will jump on that bandwagon. Hate is easy. Love, not so much. While love is a beautiful thing, it requires vulnerability. And vulnerability freaks people out. So we hate. Because we think that hate makes us strong. But at last...it doesn't. It weakens us.

There are many people who love to hate. Just spend a few hours on social media, and you will know?exactly what I am talking about. But hate to love?...Why yes. If you hate to love, you never risk getting hurt. There is no need to compromise, apologize or even show compassion. While hate may be the answer short term, over time, you will feel off balance. And you will be off balance, because there will be so few left in your life. Tolerance is the first step in freedom. It is entirely possible to live, love and accept others who do not share the same opinion, and or belief system. Not only is it possible, it is crucial for our survival.?

So what are we really talking about? You know that lane you're in? Stay in it. Too many people are crossing lanes when they have no business being there. There are very few things that require our input. There are even fewer things that require us to act. Some of us are still holding onto grudges that we can't even remember what the transgression was in the first place. WTF is that about...

Want to know what the difference is for those who are happy and those who are not?

Let me shore it up for you. We really only get busy living when we get busy loving. And what a beautiful way to live. There is not one of us who has not been fucked over, taken advantage of, or cheated. Want to know what the difference is for those who are happy and those who are not? The happy ones are the ones who moved on, and not wasting another minute living in the past. The clock is ticking my friends. Do you really want to hang onto that bad relationship that ended 4 years ago? Now we're not trusting anyone again. Sure we're dating. But are we waiting for the other shoe to drop? Let me save you the suspense. Bad and unfair things will continue to happen to us. It is up to us, not to let them consume us. Ever have a bad Monday and you let that ruin your whole week? Let it go.

Love to hate, and hate to love. It's a vicious cycle. But you can break it. And it all starts with tolerance. Short of you putting your hands on myself or my wife, I've got no beef with you. There are times that I am surrounded by people that I care not to be. And you know what? They would never know it. Because I don't love to hate. I love to love. And this is me in my lane, unbothered and shinning my love light. Who sees it??