The lost human community exchange for the critical C**ts

Is it just me, but have some people lost their communications skills with other humans?

I have lost count now when I have been invited out with friends for a coffee or to go for a meal, only to sit across the table from them and they are constantly on their phone.

Me being me and having a deep soul, I tend to look at situations, life, behaviours on a deeper level, and quite frankly if a friend is inviting me out it means to socialise not constantly be on your phone, that's, that friend done.

I can understand that they might be talking with their children, but that is not the case.

From viewing celebrity profiles on social media, commenting like they are an expert in a field they know fucking nothing about.

Getting wound up if someone has made a comment on their post; who gives a fuck.

The majority of people have now become a Professor Google, one search they have the answer and are an expert in that chosen field.

The fact a person has to justify themselves for all to read is a blatant red flag, they can't communicate like an adult and their only friend has become Google, sad ha!

I recently saw a news feed and ignored the article and went straight on to the comments. The insults and justifying to one another their knowledge was unreal.

I will give you a classic example; I bet you what I am about to state, you to have witnessed this?

You are on social media, lets take Facebook as an example, a friend has posted a comment, you don't like it and express your thoughts, the next thing one of you's has blocked the other as you find their comment to be either negative, or simply ain't agreeing with you.

Sorry, but I am a grown up women and if I have an opinion I ain't going to get into a debate on someones feed for all to see. I will simply phone them, maybe message them depending how close I am with them or meet with them.

I am going to sound like an old bat again, I never got brought up on social media and thank fuck I didn't, as I wouldn't see the bigger picture.

That bigger picture being, people social skills are fucking pathetic, (not everyones, but most).

Ok, the world has become more faster, people are more busy I get that, but that isn't an excuse not to communicate!

I watch peoples morals go down the drain on a daily basis and they don't even realise it, with it they loose their ID and rob themselves of their true authenticity being; knowing who they are, and the people whom are right to be around to resonate and become their community.

Suicide rates have grown rapidly, a lot of people feel alone and feel that they can't reach out to others.

Phone calls have been replaced by 'WhatsApp', texting to DM people on social media platforms.

I could go on and on but I won't bore you instead, I am going to challenge you to do these 5 things:

1. Make time for those that mean a lot to you and engage in activities that don't include being on the phone, iPad, laptop if your have children this a great teaching for them to have social skills and not to be on their gadgets constantly.
2. Engage in hobbies outside of work, if you have an interest google if there are any clubs near you to join.
3. Set up link-ups with friends to go out for a meal or drink and make it clear no phones to be constantly used, its all about talking baby.
4. Try out different hobbies and new places and engage with others; trust me just a simple smile can start a conversation.
5. Spend less time on social media and limit your times instead, phone a friend and talk about your day and thoughts with someone you like talking with.

The moral of the story is; if you have time to criticise your opinion on social media posts, exchange it with communication and arrange a link up with a friend instead. The more you so this, the more you will find your community and feel like a human being again.

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