Looking For An Unfair Advantage In Life? These Cheat Codes Can Give You Exactly That

Has this ever happened to you?

You look at some people and they look so confident, bold, and happy that you start to feel lost and uncertain.

It looks like they have everything figured out and if you could get some tips from them you might learn a thing or two saving you some time and effort.?

The best way to expedite personal growth is not to reinvent but to learn or steal concepts and strategies from people who are living life well.

So here goes, 9 cheat codes that give you an unfair advantage in life

• Put Constant Efforts Into Your Relationships?

Your relationships go beyond your spouse and your children. Friends, colleagues, partners, neighbors… You might know a lot of people but are you investing in them, nurturing them?

Don’t take your relationships for granted. Put constant efforts where it is required.

• Think Before You Think

This one requires a lot of awareness, understanding, and practice. We can try to understand this by an example.

There is this one person that you are not fond of and s/he constantly pops up in your subconscious mind. When they come in your thoughts it’s almost always in a negative way. Now what will happen if that person comes infront of you and triggers you?

You would either say something bad or do something bad.

Now let’s go back to your thoughts. They were already there in a negative way and you were unaware of it. And it created a space that was bound to come into action someday.

You create your own reality through your own thoughts, so think before you think.

• You Are Your Biggest Competition

When you focus on being the best, success will come to you. However, if you focus on being better than someone else, there will always be someone new and you might never be satisfied.

The only person you should try to be better is the earlier version of you.

• Problems Are Disguised As Opportunities

This might not feel right when you are in the middle of a problem, but once you take time out to understand you will see problems are opportunities to develop your character and mindset.?

You can wallow in self-pity all you want, but unless you don’t step up to take charge, problems won’t solve itself.

• An Insult Is Only True When You Want It To Be

Eleanor Roosevelt said, “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent”, and it is the ultimate truth. An opinion is just an opinion until you believe it to be true.?

Make it your weapon against bullies and bigots.

• You Are What You See, Read, And Hear

Go back to your social media and see what’s on your feed. Think about the 3 closest people you hang out with. Which book or podcast are you currently tuning into?

If you’re not careful, you can easily become the product of your environment.

• Everyone You Meet Is Fighting Their Battle

We all are humans and all carry the baggage of our pasts.

We all are afraid of something, love something, and many have even lost something they loved. Be compassionate and kind. Always.

• Don’t Just Say It, Show It

Love is about being there for your loved ones. It’s not about grand gestures or expensive gifts, it’s about appreciating, spending quality time together, and holding on to each other.

Love is always full-time. Never part-time, never some time, and certainly never according to your time.

• Believe, And You Can Be What You Want?

If you believe you can do something, you are more likely to do it. And if you believe you cannot do it or you aren’t worthy of it, you are less likely to work towards it.?

If you can believe it, you can achieve it.

We all have certain cheat codes that help us move fast.?

What is your fav cheat code?