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Appearance: How to rock your shorts

1. Consider Your Body Type, Fit, and Length:

When choosing shorts, take into account your body type, fit, and length.

Different styles of shorts complement different body shapes, so if you have shorter legs, opt for shorts with a higher inseam to elongate your silhouette.

Ensure the shorts fit well, providing enough room for movement without being too tight or too loose. Pay attention to how the waistband sits on your waist or hips, and make sure it's comfortable without digging in.

2. Fabric Matters:

Choose the right fabric based on your needs and preferences.

Cotton shorts are breathable and comfortable for casual wear, while synthetic blends like polyester or nylon are more durable and quick-drying, suitable for outdoor activities or sports. Linen shorts are lightweight and perfect for hot weather but tend to wrinkle easily.

3. Versatility:

Think about how you'll be wearing the shorts. Opt for versatile colors like khaki, navy, or black that can easily be paired with different tops and shoes for various occasions. Consider if you need pockets for functionality, and whether you prefer a classic style or something more trendy.

Communication: Do you know which words to avoid?

Ever heard of the concept "First Words Matter"?

It's a way of saying that the initial impressions we create about someone can have a lasting impact.

For instance, if you describe someone negatively as mean or shallow, others might start attributing those traits to you instead.

This phenomenon is known as "Spontaneous Trait Transference," a fascinating behaviour revealing that when we criticize others, those traits become associated with us.

It's like a sneaky trick our brains play on us.

You can read more about it in the study linked here: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/9569648/ .

So, here's the bottom line: if you're discussing someone, it's best to avoid negativity. Instead, focus on positive or neutral remarks.

Remember your mom's advice about gossip? Turns out, she was onto something!

Mindset: How to accelerate your career growth

Seek out role models who've excelled in your field.

Dive into their strategies, habits, and mindset to turbocharge your journey to success. By carefully studying and incorporating their proven methods into your own approach, you'll gain valuable insights and propel your professional development forward.

Here are 3 questions to get you started:

1. What do I admire most about my role models?

Identify what stands out to you about your role models' achievements or qualities.

2. Where can I find information about their strategies?

Look for books, articles, or interviews to learn about their approaches.

3. How can I adapt their strategies to fit my goals?

Think about how you can apply their methods to your own situation and aspirations.

That is all for this week’s newsletter.

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