The Long Game
Duncan Skelton
Make a list of the boldest futures you dare to dream. I coach Global Leaders | Rock Climber | Endurance Athlete | Ex-Google | Create a Life You Love ??
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Staying in the game
Consistency is the (not so) secret ingredient to creating value.
Consistency is your competitive advantage, because most people quit too soon.
To be in the top 1% of podcasts in the world you only need to publish 21 episodes of your podcast.
In the coaching industry today 82% of coaching businesses fail within the first 2 years.
I crossed 10 marathon finish lines with 8 PB's because each day of the training cycle I ran only what was required each and every day I could.
Success and Failure is playing small
Success is transient.
Failure, when lessons are learned and applied, becomes success over time.
Winning and losing aren't the point— it's fleeting and ego-based. The real win is staying in the game for as long you want to. The real win is being the person you aspire to be.
We're all playing the long game.
And the truth is, you already have the resources and the access to everything you need to play.
A Definition…
"Leadership is... a numbers game."
An Idea…
Littlewood's Law of Miracles
A miracle is an event with a low probability of happening, colloquially a one-in-million chance.
Cambridge University Professor John Littlewood was a mathematician who looked into miracles, and came to the insight that a human can expect a miraculous event about once a month.
This is based on a frequency of events of about one per second, and an average span of alertness of an individual of about eight hours a day.
With that being true you are witness to a million events every 35 days.
Serendipity
If you're looking for that one-in-a-million occurrence to propel you in creating the future you want, then you can help yourself by creating more events. Build a serendipity engine. Create events.
Coach Robert Ellis offers 3 useful takes on this.
Curiosity and experimentation is about looking under the stones, asking more questions, expanding the conversation.
If experimentation is the DOing, then BEing open is the mindset and attitude. To go wandering and wondering. Being open to what is present and what is emergent.
Networking is about creating connections. The bigger your network the more events you become witness to.
It's a numbers game
Every 35 days something occurs that is a one-in-a-million event.
Littlewood didn’t set out to prove the existence of miracles. He wanted to prove that extraordinary events are commonplace because there are so many events. Life is, to a greater degree than we might like to admit, a numbers game.
When you put in the work; when you stay in the game; when you pay attention; when you create more events;
...then success is inevitable.
"Success is inevitable. It's not metaphysics, it's statistics" — (Robert Ellis)
An Experiment…
?? Rapid Journal : How are you with consistency? What are the conditions in which you find consistency? And when you don't?
?? Do/Think/Be : three times this week undertake an act of curiosity and experimentation, making connections or wandering and wondering.
An invitation to explore…
?? Book: The Infinite Game | Simon Sinek
?? Ted: An underappreciated inspirational quality — Consistency | Shubhra Chaturvedi (08:12)
Leadership needn't be lonely!
Lead when ready!
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4 天前So often statistics like the ones you have shared are used as scare tactics... I love how you instead you have used them to encourage the long game mindset! I always repeat something to myself once said to me by my Coach - 'If I slow down I'll move faster'...here it makes me think of slowing down into the long game rather than rushing for the quick win which fizzles out!
award-winning international EXECUTIVE COACH, Mindfulness Mentor, creator of Peaceful Productivity? Executive Coaching
5 天前Thank you #Duncan. Great message with a variety of entry points. Actions to implement, reflections to expand, ideas to share, to highlight a few suggestions. DO something meaningful, BE with full presence. Live the Long Game!