List of Blessings I've Counted

1. I've lived through 30++ years of my live beautifully enough that when I die, my eulogy is going to be an inspiring one. In fact, I can't wait for my big 40, because it's a celebration of another decade of beautiful journey I've sailed through.

2. I have a nowhere to find partner who supports me in every aspect of life. EVERY SINGLE aspect! He puts my interest and well being above his. I must have done something very good in my previous life to deserve such a man lol

3. I've very successful female entrepreneur who is my best friend to keep me inspired. She is my pillar of strength and source of inspiration. Despite going through challenges in her business as much as I do, she scolded her way out to awaken me, so that I don't drown further in my own fear. She made her time for me despite the fact she needs to navigate her RM10million turnover business. It's like getting Robert Kiyosaki to talk me at no cost! That is how honoured I feel to have such a friend like her.

4. I've my NLP Master Trainer who trained and equipped so well, that when this unfavourable situation happens, I can maneuver skills easily to make myself more relevant and adaptable to my market

5. I've my NLP Master Trainer who is also my coach, who coached me unconditionally and without judgement, despite the fact that I broke into pieces right before CMO. His intention was simple, to just get me out from my negative state of mind. I couldn't be more blessed that he came into my life

6. I am glad that I made the effort to talk a young, handsome and successful dentist who is also my friend, who shared with me about Miracle Morning by Hal Elrod. He taught me the concept of positive affirmation. It was because of him I've this list of blessings

7. I have not only 1, but ANOTHER 1 NLP Coach in my life who coaches and is still coaching me in my life and business now. No matter how busy is his schedule, he never fail to make his efforts and commitment to meet me up and clear up my emotional rubbish! And he is most chill, patient and responsible coach I've met so far. To be able to find a coach that coach you right from the heart, not out of money, is a rare gem found in current chaos. He is more valuable than diamond

8. I've a friend who is well known story teller coach in the industry, despite the fact that we've known for only a few months, took the liberty and efforts to listen to me and provides me some enlightenment, spotting of my blind spots and bringing them to my awareness. Sometimes, at times that we are down, we just need a pair of listening ears, and we are good to go!

9. I got the chance to be featured in TV, magazines all over when i am still at the infant age of my business. How many people do get the chance to be in TV and magazines?

10. I have people who trust my capability in doing my training professionally, and within the 1st quarter of starting my business, I got to train well known insurance company, just because she trusted me and gave it all out to bring my expertise to the management. Trust is seriously earned, and I am honoured that she gave her full trust on me

A lot of people had been quite curious on why I am composed and calm despite the crazy world out there. I am just a human, and yes... I do break down in pieces that I can't even pick myself up. There are moments that cry and still keep on crying till I am out of tears.

But, what makes me to be courageous enough to share this with you is because I know how you feel, I've been there and I am still in the hustle bustle mood.

Question is:

Which what kind of mindset and perspectives do you want to take this? Indulge in self pity or blaming? By counting my blessings, my mind somehow shifted to resourcesfulness, and I am able to shed some light into the dark tunnel that I created myself.

Ask Yourself:

What am I grateful about? List down as many as you can, no matter how big or small is the blessings. That is 1 of the many ways I use to bring myself to resourcefulness.

Be Blessed!