Linkedin: Why You Get Attacked When You Have A Viral Post And How To Respond
Be prepared to duck.
That's the opening advice I can give you if one of your Linkedin posts goes viral.
I have had a series of viral posts, with as many as 800,000 plus views, on a variety of subjects. Some with personal opinions, others simply anecdotes, and others centered around lessons I have learned as a CEO.
All have been different but all have shared a common thread; they elicit a range of responses, yes, but always a substantial number of vitriolic statements and personal attacks.
When I recently recounted a story about a job I held briefly right out of school, I was called "a thief," a "douche" and much more because I used the poorly paid position as a launchpad to my entrepreneurial career.
Wow. Of course, everyone is entitled to their opinions, but where does this raw animosity come from? If I had written about race, politics, the climate or other hotbed issues I would understand, but I rarely go near such controversial topics on Linkedin, which I view as a Crowd Learning forum as opposed to a soapbox.
I am not going to speculate on why the anger erupts over rather innocuous posts, but as they are a metaphor for all things viral on the Internet, I think it may be of some interest to know how I treat the hostility, as you may want to do the same (or exactly the opposite):
*Don't respond at all to those who are more than angry, they are apparently irrational. Why feed fire with fire. A smart discourse is not what they are after.
*Stay out of the threads that develop among the responders. It is now their conversation, not yours.
* If someone seeks genuine clarification on a point you made, provide it fully and graciously.
*Recognize that some people are out to destroy or poison otherwise healthy conversations. Ignore them.
*Never be afraid to tell the truth, take a stand or tell a story.
We all grow by learning from each other.
Self Employed (WORDS)
9 年Well imagine...............people are different..................
AI Solution Engineer
9 年More than the vitriolic comments, I find the skillfully harmful mails disturbing. They do not come from angry people but from people with a "mission" to specifically break a discussion by either being abusive or veering it in another direction. I've encountered this a few times and resented the helplessness against these well honed techniques. These to my opinion are the people we need to learn how to deal with.
Helping cleaning business owners thrive.
9 年Mark...thank you. I have a post circulating right now that exploded far beyond my wildest expectations. I actually had no inkling it would do so. While it has attracted some honest feedback (good and bad) that is valid and part of the conversation, it has also drawn out some comments and personalities I never imagined could exist.
Administrative Professional
9 年Great post, very accurate
Director of Innovation
9 年Nice post. There is a tone of "ugly" right now that people have tapped into, hiding being the shield of the computer screen. Keep writing!