?? Lights! Camera! …Fakeness? (Truth Behind Influencers)
?? David Asarnow ??
CEO at Business Nitrogen, and host of The Infinite Business Podcast
Have you ever found yourself scrolling through Facebook, Instagram, or TikTok, admiring someone else's "picture-perfect lifestyle" and feeling like you'll never measure up??
If you're nodding your head and saying “Yes” right now, trust me when I say this…You're not alone.?
Because in this age of social media, we’re bombarded with images of people who seem to have it all: The perfect job, the perfect partner, the perfect body, and the ideal possessions.?
But what we often forget is that these images are just that — Images. They are carefully curated, edited, and filtered to show only the very best of someone's life. And even then, they only tell a small part of the story.
Here's the truth: There will ALWAYS be someone with more money, a nicer car, a bigger boat, or a fancier house…But that doesn't mean that you're any less worthy or successful than they are.?
You see, success is a deeply personal thing.?
It's about defining what YOU want out of life. Working towards those goals, no matter how big or small they may be. It's not about keeping up with the Joneses or measuring your worth against someone else's.
And here's another truth: The "picture-perfect lifestyle" that so many people post online is often 100% scripted, fabricated, and FAKE.?
What they don’t show are the hundreds of photos that were taken (and deleted) before the “perfect” shot was found.
You don't see the struggles, the setbacks, or the disappointments that inevitably come with life.
You don't see the stress and anxiety that come with trying to maintain an image that isn't true to who you actually are.
All of this is to say that comparison is a trap. It's a never-ending cycle of "I'm not good enough!" that can keep you stuck in a place of self-doubt and self-criticism.?
And here's the REAL kicker…
The ones who create this inauthentic online persona are saying the EXACT. SAME. THING. (They’re comparing themselves to others and feeling inadequate too).
So if you really think about it, what's the point of it all?
Now, don't get me wrong…It's not bad to have nice things. In fact, I own some nice things myself, like nice clothes and a fast car…
But here's the difference, I don't have these things to impress others.?
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I have them for myself because I enjoy it.
And that's the key…When you buy something, make sure it's for you, not for anyone else. There's nothing wrong with wanting to look and feel your best, but it's important to do it for the right reasons.
For example, if you want to buy a nice car, ask yourself:
“Do I really want this car because I genuinely believe it will make me feel a certain way when driving it?”
“Or do I want it so I can show off and make others feel envious of me?”
If it's the latter, you may want to reconsider your motives. Because at the end of the day, what matters most is how you feel about yourself and your life.
It's about finding contentment in the present moment and appreciating and feeling gratitude for all that you have, instead of always chasing after what you don't have.
So go ahead and buy that nice outfit or that fancy gadget…But don't forget to celebrate the things that truly matter (like the moments spent with loved ones, the memories made on adventures, and the personal achievements that bring you true joy).
And the next time you find yourself feeling envious of someone else's “perfect” life, take a step back and remind yourself that social media isn't the real world.
It's okay to take inspiration from others, but don't let it turn into a negative self-comparison.
Instead, focus on your own journey and your own goals. Embrace your unique path and all the ups and downs that come with it, because that's what makes life interesting and fulfilling.
And don't forget, you don't have to do it alone.?
Surround yourself with positive and supportive people who will encourage and uplift you. Share your victories (and your struggles) with those who matter most to you, and let them be a source of strength and motivation.
In the end, success is a journey — not a destination.?
It's not about being perfect or having it all figured out. It's about learning, growing, and becoming the best version of yourself…?and if you ask me, that's something worth celebrating.
To your success,
David
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