Life's Surprises

       As I shared in my previous posts (which received numerous responses from many of you who could relate), “being present” is essential for winning in life. This includes how you handle the surprises and inconveniences that life gives you. In fact, I’m writing this while waiting for a delayed flight to an important meeting. Instead of being annoyed, I am choosing to enjoy the moment and watch people. Feeling upset or annoyed will NOT get the plane into the air any sooner.

        I’ve been working on “BEing” as part of being present to win. That means accepting responsibility for the things I can control and learning to appreciate the situations that are beyond my control. I can’t control many situations, but I can control how I respond to them.

        I’m reminded of all the times I reacted instead of responded to various events. Like that deal counterparty who was less than honest, or the tenant who acted entitled and blamed other things for why the rent was not paid on time. I’m sure some of you are dealing with tenants who spent the money intended for January’s rent on Christmas presents instead.

        “Reacting” involves words or actions that are done on impulse without giving thought to a situation or considering the consequences. “Responding” lets you take a deep breath, think about what is happening, and choose an appropriate course of action that is best for all. When it comes to being present, how you choose to respond is part of how you choose to be.