Of Life And Women

So IWD was celebrated recently and everywhere I turn was women are strong, women are this women are that (ROLL EYES)

Why do you need to project so much insecurity when we already know who the strong ones are?

Why bring about the comparison when there is nothing to be compared about?

Why state the obvious, because…like seriously we all know who the strongest ones are.

Can you say to the source of life itself, I am stronger than you?

Like what is the essence of your power if it cannot heal?

From creation, women were made healers and nurturers, why leave your core responsibility to drag position with a man? If we heal, we can build. If we nurture, we can manage more effectively.

Don’t you know we each have our unique role to play?

If a woman feels like doing more than she was naturally gifted to do, so be it.

If a man feels like doing more than he was naturally gifted to do, so be it.

If any of the other animals, plants or living things in general feels like they want to do more than they were naturally gifted to do, so be it.

I see no point in dragging men every time because of some limitations institutions have selfishly set up to divide us and promote chaos on earth.

Look at the ants, each one of them playing their unique individual role for the greater good of all, but humans…we will rather kill each other than live in harmony, who did this to you? No one! We did this to us and if there is anyone to blame, it is you and I from the small corners of our world. From the parents who place one child above another, from the society and groups who discriminate, to the government and institutions who segregate.

I am a woman, I am strong and powerful in my own way. So is a man, he is strong and powerful in his own way and that will not and shall never stop me from being all I can be.

Stop the hate.

Stop the blame.

Stop thinking that anyone took your power, because no one can and every sensible person knows there is and will never be a world of men without a woman, it's an obvious fact. So, if you want to celebrate a woman celebrate them without comparing them with the masculine gender because they are unique and powerful just as they are and are in most cases more in trouble with themselves and their being and I think that is what we should talk about. let's talk about embracing than requesting...is that too much?

Happy women’s months!

To your Digital Wealth and Wellness always??

~Aderonke Adeyemi?

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