Life salutes you when you make others happy

Happiness in a relationship is about reciprocation. You can not expect to receive what you are not willing to give. So if you wish to receive something from someone, you must first give it. That creates a natural tendency for your partner to reciprocate that behavior or affection. If your partner does not reciprocate, keep giving, and talk to them about your feelings. If your partner wishes to have you continue whatever you are doing to make them happy, they should reciprocate. Making others happy is rewarding to anyone. But it is impossible to sustain without reciprocation. But once it starts then it is difficult to stop.

I am not sure exactly but 'altruism' is a trait in some humans somehow. Fundamentally about the best thing you can do when you are down in depression is go help anyone who needs some help. We are somewhat entrained in this behavior in most religions. Help people who need it. Do onto others as they would do onto you. You might say it’s a core trait of human nature. Not everyone has it.

Being grateful, humble, and helping your neighbour are nice things to practice. In mental health, it also happens to you to move your focus from introspection to social outward behaviours. Focusing on someone else’s problem is much easier for me than trying to perfect my imperfect self. But i was born to help others too as an archetype. Nurturer. I just like to watch anything grow. People, animals, plants, inventions, businesses. So I feel happy to feed whatever is in front of me something it hopefully needs.

It is similar to the charity work and fundraising actually give you a nice endorphin effect biologically. It remains possible most of us or at least some of us are positively motivated and biologically wired to spread love and kindness. Those that seem not to express those traits? They may just not have learned yet, or are suffering some type of security distress. Depression or anxiety can mask your natural instincts sometimes. Helping others gives a new high to me.

Like me if you have yourself suffered a lot in life then you would know how to be relatively comfortable and content no matter the situation. If I can make others happy, then I know that I'll be happy because I will always find a way. When everyone around me is happy, I know I can relax and let my mind wander. I think making others happy makes us feel happy because it feels good to know that your effort helped someone else. Life is hard. Knowing you were able to make life just a little bit easier, even if for a brief moment, is satisfying as hell. Emotions are infectious. Seeing someone happy, and knowing you had a part in doing that, it just rubs off.

How true is it that when we focus on the happiness of others and trying to make somebody else happy, we become more happy ourselves? but to be honest, focusing on the situation of others has the convenient side-effect of one not being focused on their own happiness, or lack of happiness. “Happiness” is an odd aspect of life. It is a goal, an ideal. Yet, it is also most present when one is too busy to contemplate if one is happy or not. There is something to be said about being too engaged in life to ask if you’re enjoying it.

People are really powerful and that is a plain fact. One person can have a immense impact on another’s life. When focusing on the happiness of another, there is a good likelihood you’ll find ways to improve, if even at a surface level, the happiness of your focus. And they will sense that, and a deeper more meaningful happiness manifests due to the unspoken understanding between you and your focus; they understand that you’re not just another anybody, but a somebody that cares about them. Recognition that they are not alone, and that recognition reflects back to you, and you feel less alone as well.

This works at a very subtle level as you may see ,it is a very simple game of energy and vibrations really speaking and whenever we make someone happy , their energy in the form of gratitude or smiles gets redirected towards us making us feel happy again. The bio vibrations do the magic and in other words, you give happiness to people around you, giving service to the universe, whatever goes in will definitely come back with a multiplier effect. When we give, we receive more and that is law of universe. The feeling of serving is directly related to our contentment levels.

Making others happy isn't as hard as it seems,kindness is a start. I am kind by nature a pretty happy individual in general. It is hard to explain for me, but it's a challenge to make someone smile. I have had many challenges, experienced much personal loss etc. Life is difficult, people are angry, negative and sad. It feels amazing knowing that I have made that person smile or return that kindness to another and that makes me feel good, warm and happy inside. Stay blessed! #kishoreshintre #possessedbywritingspirit