Life doesn't get easier, you just get stronger

They say that life doesn't get easier any longer as anything, even life, is easier if you are prepared to deal with it! How? by becoming stronger that we are really. We need to accept that life is not fair nor unfair, it just is...get on with it!

Just reflect upon your life from your childhood till today. Remember you were never used not to speak , you were used not to walk on your won, you never used know how to rinse and clean yourself and at that times all that was tough for our age but we did adjust to situations and somehow managed to get ahead.

Your dependence on others was with certain restrictions. In time and with practice you overcame each of those difficulties and then life moved to another level of difficulty, you went to school and then you had to be away from your parents some time of the day, your play time was reduced, you have work load increased, and you started learning better time management and making little little compromises in life.

Now, with time you started adopting to these changes, you made friends at school so now staying away from parents was not so bad, but then you planned your day between homework and outdoor activities. In time you overcame those difficulties and then life moved on to a new level of difficulty. You were a teenager now and then different kind of difficulties arose, secret crush of someone, heartaches, pimples, hormones, changes in the body with adolescent sexuality, attraction, sex, cigarettes, mood swings , bullying, work, career, damn life sucked at every point.

I do not know much about how you managed, but I survived teen ages somehow. I had my insecurities, I behaved erratically , made some mistakes and learnt a lots a lots of lessons in building self confidence, hard work, friendships , relationships, and I survived and grown. I am hopeful that you to are doing fine, fighting your daily battles, tired some days, hopeless some another days and confident on the remaining but still surviving , if you are a teenager.

If you have been through your teen age , congratulations you have cleared a different level of difficult and now has advanced to another stage, full of career choices, colleges, commitments , family responsibilities, jobs, finance, office politics, etc.but the point remains that life never gets easier, You keep getting tougher and wiser , and that is what should matter and that is how it should be.

Keep growing, keep learning, keep fighting your way upwards. Learn that smiles are contagious...and so are frowns! Define early on, what are your passions and objective in life and pursue them! Learn that life is a decision, you decide to be happy, to love, to be angry or not, to succeed and in general anything you want! Understand that success is not measured by what you have, but by who you are. Know that persistence will take you further than any other human trait. Learn to not suffer life, all problems go away one way or another, no matter how little or much you worry about them!

Understand you need to spend your money on experiences like travelling, family, vacations, etc.instead of other things. Almost all of the things you will have...you will forget, yet every experience you live will be indelibly stamped in your mind. Love more, hate less, yes you will hate some things, or at least dislike or lose time pondering silly stuff, when you should be enjoying yourself and having happy thoughts instead), and definitely live and laugh more.

Learn to forgive everything and everybody, and get rid of all that stupid baggage we all carry in our heads and souls when we don't forgive and forget! Never be a follower, you will end up where somebody else wanted to go. Never owe more than you can pay! Study and study hard, your title may not be what you end up doing, but it will teach you that you can get things done, and also get you into the training of working hard to meet expectations.

Don’t blame others, life or whatever when things don’t work out, blame will never resolve anything, just address the situation, and move on with no mental duress! Live now and today, it’s the only moment in life when you can do something that will have an effect. Yesterday is gone and who knows what tomorrow will bring you can prepare, but life has a tendency of throwing spanners into our works quite consistently.

Understand well that nobody will do anything for you for free… so if you want something, get it yourself! You will never be let down. Finally, never stop living, learning and moving forward, and don’t stop until you are no more, that is what in the end will give you contentment, fulfillment and satisfaction in life! If you do the above, life will become simpler, I don’t know if easier, but you will see things under another perspective that will help you deal with it in a better way. Stay blessed! #kishoreshintre #possessedbywritingspirit