Life does not wait for the right time
Kishore Shintre
#newdaynewchapter is a Blog narrative started on March 1, 2021 co-founded by Kishore Shintre & Sonia Bedi, to write a new chapter everyday for making "Life" and not just making a "living"
Thi is quite true with me. I spend a hell lot of time dreaming and thinking about various things. It could be something I would like to do in distant future or it could be something I should be doing the very next hour. Most of my time gets wasted in "thinking" how and when I'd do something than "actually Doing" that something. Instead rejoice every minute of live you are living. Forget the past, Excuse the future, Enjoy the present. Instead of crying for 10 reasons that made your day bad, celebrate that 1 one reason that brought a smile on ur face, even if the slightest one. Change your perspective toward the world.
Don't force yourself to think positive, but try the best to bring out the best of your ability from the worst. And never force yourself onto something, just accompany and pursue yourself to willingly do it, since you need yourself more than anyone else, because these days people are too close to others that they have became too far from themselves. Last but not least- Never give you, never backoff, let your last try be never the last one. Run, fall, stand, and finish the damn job.
We actually never stop looking for good times because we are never satisfied with the things we possess and things we have achieved. You have not mentioned your particular problems but i will say that if you want to live the good times you will have to pay attention to the things that make you feel good, happy and positive. Stop worrying about things you dont have. Seek the success with the right path. Discuss your problems with the close ones and it will definately turn the table to little extent.
Finding joy in very little things is the key to happiness when you are depressed. See hope in each little thing and try to make some good positive thoughts about those. Do things which make you happy, make yourself busy in them. Due to depression, there comes a time when it seems like I have suffered much more than this and other problems seem nothing before those which you faced in the past. Work hard on yourself. As you are in depression and facing so many problems. So, the self analysis is the best solution and try it, have some change in yourself because it's not necessary that you are always right. Improve and prepare yourself for the best and the worst. After some positive activities I hope you will live good times and stop wanting to not look for it.
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Life is never easy; every one of us faces hardships and disappointments.But the real issue, however, is how we react to them. Do we Give up or we keep pushing till we get what we want. Do we grow bitter or become stronger. Do we become humble or turn against each other.” What would you do ? Would you feel lazy to take it out ? If you are feeling sick, will you use that as an excuse ? Will you say, nah I will sleep for an hour and take it out an hour later ? Obviously not. You will probably make the most of those two hours to enjoy this beast. Now one question: Is a Lamborghini more valuable than your life? Definitely no.
Then why you wouldn’t treat your life as important as a lambo? Life is ultimately nothing but time, when you waste an hour of your time you waste a percentage of your life. How you spend an hour determines how you spend a day determines how you spend a year determines how you spend your life. Lets go back in the past: Lets go back 5 years later, imagine the amount of time you wasted. What if you would have put it to a better use? Would your life had been any better if you had utilised the time properly? Now lets go 5 years ahead in the future, what you do today will determine where you would be 5 years ahead. People who value time and spend it wisely have everything in life, success , money, happiness, satisfaction etc while the one who wastes time just spend their entire life wondering how time went by and how they didn’t achieve anything substantial.
We all know that life is precious however we forget that time is life and wasting time is ultimately wasting life. When you understand this you will never waste a second of your life. How to practically stop wasting time: Have a plan for every hour: Even if you are not working and are taking a day off, just plan everything you would do in a day hour by hour Stop procrastinating: If you know that something important needs to be done then do it now without giving it a second thought. Stop spending time on dumb things: Tv series, novels, youtube videos are not made for us. They are made for by the creators to mint money off you. I don’t mean you should completely stop watching series or reading novels but limit the amount of time you spend on it. Conquer your hour and hence the day and hence your life:
If you spend every hour of the day productively you will spend your life in the same way. Start by making the most of the current hour and you wont have to worry about the rest.Set priorities: Set priorities for tasks you have, what matters the most to you? health or career?You should plan your activities according to the priorities you have. Top priority tasks should be done earlier in the day. Cheers!
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2 年Very nice post
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2 年Insightful post sir ??
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2 年Nice share Kishore Ji
Visiting Faculty--Management & Certified Career Counselor
2 年Insightful post, Kishore. when we work and get remuneration, we feel that every hour spent is productive. That is how our mental conditioning becomes. We derive a lot of satisfaction from our avocation but we do not feel that we have spent productive time on it because there is no earning. There lies the rub.
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2 年Wow Kishoreji. Dil se Dil tak. Wonderful message. Bahut Khoob