Life is Best in the Subtle

This time last year I published an article on LInkedIn, for my newsletter called You are the Possibility called 13 Days of Multi-Orgasmic Living.

This is the basis for this year’s upcoming 13 week Let’s Play with Intimacy program starting January 13, 2025. You see over the past year, I have experimented with various ways to teach others what I practice and live. Many people coach, guide and mentor others but not all of them live and practice what they teach. That is all I know how to do.

My year in review: From 2023 to 2024, I have offered:

1. The Embodiment Group with an intimate group of women,?
2. Detached Love book talks,?
3. Virtual, hybrid and in person Creating Your Joy Bubble workshops,?
4. A workshop on How to Open your Heart after heartbreak instead of closing up and recoiling,?
5. Offered a four week course based on my 29 Days of Intimacy calendar and?
6. I did two retreats, one where I offered Mindful Erotic Eating and Creating Your Joy Bubble.?
7. Then this last one in Bali where for a week I co-faciliated with The Love Camp, to help women awaken love in their life through intimate subtleties.?
8. All based on my Four Mind Alignment philosophy infused with Jynger Bytes and of course my foundational Replenish Me process the core of self-nurturing.?
9. On the corporate side, I introduced Joy Bonding Consulting. Joy Bonding is the outward of all things inward in what I call intimacy intelligence.

My methodology is forever evolving and strengthening as I do the same. You get to see me BE my work real time. I am the subtleties that people miss. Life is full of subtleties. Because we are focused on the “big picture” and “greener pastures” most never experience and enjoy what really makes life great. Business is about clarity, kpis, and the tangible. Knowing and seeing those things build trust…or do they. For all the laws and benchmarks, employees are still disengaged, unhappy and missing the mark or overlooked even when matching the marks.?

Why? Because trust is built in the subtleties of humanity. That is what I call intimacy intelligence. People spend so much time avoiding and escaping reality in an effort to relax that they never truly relax. True relaxation comes by being in your body and seeing the world as a mirror. The world is your mirror. What you see in front of you is what you are missing within you. What you think is about them is really about you and what they think is about you is really about them. Based on that you choose your words. The words you say to yourself are the most important because you repeat and listen to those almost 80,000 thoughts all day every day. Those words create your choices, beliefs and thoughts. That is your whole world.

Pause with that and give it breath for a moment.

All of that shows up in how you treat your body. You allow your natural nails, hair, eyes and skin to show or you cover them up with or enhance them with, depending on your perception, acrylic nails, wigs, extensions, botox, etc. These can be poisons to your body which over time slowly diminish and kill you. You may drink alcohol, use plant medicine, or have a completely natural diet which again heals, builds or destroys your body. You may never allow deep sleep or complete rest so that you can stay in your doing and less in your being. Again not allowing your body to recuperate, recalibrate and reset…or replenish. Slowly you kill yourself very harshly and intentionally. My invitation comes with choosing to replenish yourself in all the ways that you may currently be missing. Not just because it is December but always and everyday.?

Are you open to living and noticing the subtleties? Let’s get intimate.

Receive my invitation to choose pleasure and joy so that you actually enjoy your life. This is not a sales pitch or even an invitation to join my program starting next month. It is an invitation to choose differently. If you think you have your self-care and self-nurturing on lock, I challenge you to go deeper and look for what you are truly missing.

Reflect and share your insights with me.

Happy #sweetwalk #sunday!