The Liberty in Finding Balance
Clarke Murphy
Board and CEO Leadership Advisor, Russell Reynolds Associates | CEO Emeritus | Board Director | Best-selling author of Sustainable Leadership
I have been lucky enough to learn a great deal in my 10 years as Chief Executive Officer of Russell Reynolds Associates, but the experiences I have had in my final year in the role were perhaps the most fulfilling of all. A standout for me was the time I spent sitting behind the mic as a co-host of our podcast, Redefiners . Now as I return to my role as a consultant advising clients full time again, I have found myself reassessing my own balance, and reflecting back to a recent podcast interview with Hintsa Performance CEO Annastiina Hintsa, when she talked a lot about healthy thinking and living for performance-driven managers, especially CEOs.
Hintsa shared a story of her father, who founded their coaching firm in Ethiopia with clients that included entrepreneurs, politicians, Olympic athletes and now top CEOs. Hintsa’s father is an orthopedic surgeon, and he was ushering Olympic runner Haile Gebrselassie into an operating room to repair a ruptured Achilles tendon ahead of the Athens Olympics. He was very nervous with so much at stake; the future of this runner’s ability to compete was in his hands. Before the operation got underway, Gebrselassie looked up at Dr. Hintsa and said, “Chill out. It’s just running.” The takeaway for an astounded Dr. Hintsa was that while running was the passion for this athlete, it was not his whole life. Running is not what defined him.
Holistic health and well-being are the foundation for a balanced life and better performance overall. Think about it; if you are a 20-hour work-day manager, your health will be compromised. If your health is compromised, you won’t be able to operate at the highest levels required for a CEO for very long. Likewise, if we channel our energy to the maneuvers of corporate blood sport that can dominate companies, that will consume our thinking rather than prioritizing the performance of the enterprise and well-being of employees.
For me, sleep and exercise have been central to finding balance. Even during a trip to Asia or Europe, I have found that a run or swim at any point during the day leads to better sleep at night. One of my older brothers has long said “Sleep is a weapon; it can be used for you or against you.” He was right. To me, sleep balances everything.
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It is more important than ever to find that balance, with work, family and other passions. As leaders, we should want to inspire our teams to do the same, and it is our responsibility to set an example.
Have you ever driven a car when the tires were unbalanced? Taken a bicycle out for a ride only to find that the wheels are not properly balanced? Gone for a run with a strained foot or knee? Performance suffers and bad things happen for the long term without proper balance.
The metaphor holds especially true for the life of a CEO. The most successful CEOs have come to learn to work smarter, that having a more balanced life, leading collaborative teams and successfully delegating to the fully capable leaders around them is a far sounder plan than burning the candle on both ends and dragging others down along the way.
In other words, “Chill Out. It’s just running.”
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2 年Clarke Murphy that interview impacted me deeply. I remembered my own personal experience 7 years ago, when my blood pressure rose to an alarming level. Since then I have made a whole revision of my life, of the greater meaning of work, and of the urgent need to rethink the concept of success in business and in life.
CEO @ Hintsa Performance | Board member, ex-McKinsey
2 年Thank you so much for having me in the Redefines podcast Clarke Murphy! Love your takeaways from our discussion, especially your brother’s quote: “Sleep is a weapon; it can be used for you or against you.”
Loved that interview - from the words of a runner to his surgeon, before the surgery, putting into perspective that we are more than our profession, talent or ability, which may change at any time.? What is important for me is to feel balanced, and not progressing at one area at the cost of another. ? For me, balance now looks like choosing wisely where to invest my time. So, I am building a foundation: First, on sleep. I compromised on sleep as a way to navigate through the pandemic “productively” but it was not a good investment. Second, on nutrition. I ordered the Daily Harvest organic smoothies and bowls to have for quick prep, instead of reaching for less optimal snacks. I may chose to try some other subscription too, But it’s been a fun and healthy experiment.? Third, on activity. Taking a brisk walk even in 27 degree weather after dropping off the kids helps me clear my head and get ready for the day ahead. Rested, nourished and active, I have a greater ability/capacity to respond to things that come up (from kid tantrums to urgent decisions). It may not be a true and measured balancing act, but it helps me feel balanced or grounded.?
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2 年Well said Clarke Murphy -Sleep and exercise have been central to finding balance. Thank you for amplifying the conversation on what really matters in life. ???I always advise my mentees that taking care of your body is also a higher calling. Becoming more self-aware, knowing your values, understanding how and where you spend your time is paramount to leading a balanced higher-purpose life. ???The "how can I help?" mindset across all spheres of life (career, family, faith/spirituality, health/sleep, fun/recreation/reading, making a difference) leads to a better balance and more fulfilling. Harry Kraemer, Jr. Daniel Siegel James Strock Arianna Huffington #Your168 #KSgems #Values #Purpose #ServeToLead #MakeWorkHuman Eric Mosley
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2 年I’m not a huge fan of the word “balance” as it can mean keeping very competing daily priorities from work, service, family and relationships in constant plate-spinning battle for attention. I do LOVE the word “healthy” though-and I think setting intentions and proactive planning can help all leaders lead better, and likely live better too! I’d love to see more leaders openly communicate about sleep-totally agree with what your brother thinks! ??????????