LEVERAGE MISTAKES TO YOUR ADVANTAGE

LEVERAGE MISTAKES TO YOUR ADVANTAGE

IDENTITY BLUEPRINT FOR THE FANTASY NEW YOU

 The facts of the past don’t determine the future, #selfimageReimagined.com, #EricMiller

Yesterday really doesn’t matter!

Many people make the same mistakes and get stuck reliving them over and over again. They put too much importance on past mistakes and the decisions that weren’t made. They focus on all the bad things that happened to them. Oftentimes, this results in carrying around the pain of past events for years with no end in sight.

How do I know this? Because I was one of those people. Back in the day, I used to be a person that was haunted by my past mistakes. I was seeing the consequences of all the attitudes and mistakes from my past and couldn't see the forest for the trees. I had disappointed a lot of people who believed in me and I lost sight of my dreams. All those memories were like a horror movie playing in my head over and over again. It was a scary place to be in.

To make matters worse, I started believing all those past experiences would define my future. I believed that I would forever be stuck watching the same movie in my head over and over again.

And then… one day I had a moment of clarity. I wasn't doomed to be the lead actor in a horror movie if I didn’t choose to play it.

“The facts of the past don’t determine the future” – Eric Miller

The fact I had some past failures didn't mean I wouldn’t achieve what I wanted. The future scripts for the sequel to my movie hadn’t been written yet. I finally decided that there was enough pain in my life and I wasn’t going to carry it around for the rest of my life.

IDENTITY BLUEPRINTING FOR THE FANTASY NEW YOU

The first step was in the realization that my past, was in the past. In order to choose happiness, I would have to reframe my perceptions of all the S.N.A.F.U.’s of the past. If I could be truly honest with myself, I could use those experiences to become better.

“Choose to leave past mistakes and disappointments, in the past, and opt for happy”

I was now free from the regrets and mistakes of the past. I had a new adventure ahead of me and I restored lost confidence and experienced a new kind of motivation.

 The second step was in drafting a new identity blueprint. Being honest with myself allowed me to choose what I didn’t want to be any longer. My perceptions shifted to what really mattered, and who I wanted to become. I then had clarity on how I would live my life moving forward.

I was finally able to delete the horror movie that was playing in my head. I was writing a whole new script that would not have me playing the villain as the lead role. Those decisions set me free.

Now, I need to ask you something …

Have you lost the motivation to pursue your dreams? Do you believe you can't create a brighter future for yourself? If the answer is YES, then I have something that will help you.

RECALIBRATE >> RESTART >> THRIVE

Choose to leave past mistakes and disappointments, in the past, and opt for happiness” #selfimageReimagined.com, #EricMiller

Regardless of your current circumstances, you can choose your own way in life. Clearly understand that you can start from where you are now and make dramatic shifts in the direction you’re headed in.

You already have what it takes to become the uncommon leader that you were meant to become. Take immediate action and change course to a new destination.

Recalibrate now >>>

David Cox

Freelance Copy Editor

3 年

Bravo, Eric Miller. I've read many of your posts and this one may be my favorite. I can't tell you the number of people I know who define themselves and approach their future by their mistakes and disappointments. This article is not only a keeper, it's worth reviewing periodically. Thanks so much for sharing your post with us!

Tony Seruga

Greenlaw Capital Succession, Exit & Cash-Out Expert ? Investor ? Mentor ? CRE ? Board Member ? Data Scientist & Pioneer ? CIA/NSA Contractor ? Private Intel Ops

3 年

Great article, Eric. "Recalibrate >> Restart >> Thrive" So true.

Owen O’Malley

Building Investment Clubs * Providing Investment Education * Shares * Share Options * 200 Active Mastermind Groups * Investment Workshops *Operating in 50 countries worldwide since 1998

3 年

Love your video message Eric - well done

John E. Randolph

I Provide Recruiting Solutions To Local CPA Firm Owners & Leaders By Delivering Untapped Talent At A Price Point That Won't Break The Bank

3 年

Eric Miller NLP, EQ, I have to agree with Jason Fuchs AAMS? - "Recalibrate, restart, revive" is HUGE!

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