Letting Go of Worry: A Life Lesson From My Father

I recently found myself reminiscing about VON. This trip down memory lane reminded me of Spring '98 VON, which I dedicated to my dad. Dad passed away a week later, and his wisdom continues to resonate with me even today.

"Worrying is a Waste of Time!" - A Father's Wisdom

My dad frequently reminded me that "worrying is a waste of time." As a child, I heard these words but didn't fully grasp their meaning. It took me years to truly understand and appreciate the profound life lesson he was imparting.

Worrying in Life and Business

Growing up, I found plenty of reasons to worry – from school, friendships, to personal growth. Later in life, as I navigated the world of small business, worries seemed to multiply. There were big worries, small worries, and even co-dependent worrying as a result of relationships.

Breaking Free from the Cycle of Worry

If you ever find yourself stuck in a worry loop, it's time to put a stop to it. Instead of worrying, take action. It wasn't until after my dad passed away that I truly grasped the value of this lesson.

The Reality of Worrying

The truth is, worrying consumes time and energy without offering any tangible benefits. Life is full of things we can control and things we cannot. By letting go of the uncontrollable and focusing on what we can change, we can free ourselves from the burden of worry.

You Are the CEO of Your Life

Whether or not you run a business, you are in charge of your own life. As someone who has learned the hard way, I encourage you to let go of your worries. This doesn't mean ignoring your concerns but rather shifting your energy from worry to action. Focus on what you can control and watch your life transform.

The Power of Letting Go

The past few years have been challenging for everyone, with the pandemic placing unprecedented stress on our lives. I am grateful for my father's lesson on worrying, as it has been a valuable tool in navigating these difficult times. Learning to let go of worry has become a secret weapon that I carry with me, both personally and in my work advising companies.

Embrace the Doing Mind

Ready to make a positive change? Stop worrying and start doing! By setting yourself free from the worried mind and embracing a proactive mindset, you can achieve incredible things. This life lesson is brought to you in memory of my father, Howard Pulver.