A Letter from a proud father to his loving children
CA Pramod Jain
Independent Director I Valuation Professional I Financial Strategist I CharteredAccountant I IndAS/IFRS/ Corporate Governance Specialist I Insolvency Professional I Author of Bestsellers I Social Auditor & Business Coach
My Dear Children,
Yesterday, the Paryushan Parv got over. On this auspicious occasion, I thought to share with you few wisdom of life which have helped me a great deal in my life and I am sure these will help you too.
First of all, “Happiness” is nothing but just a state of mind. It is just a thought. And we all have the power to change our thoughts as per our wish and we should always change our thoughts consciously with awareness to happiness.
Happiness has nothing to do with what is happening outside. It’s just that over the years, we all are programmed to connect/relate it that way. So, just make happiness your habit. Resolve forever, “come what may, I am going to be happy in every moment of life” and be rest assured, it will happen that way. I myself practice it and have been benefitting from it immensely.
Secondly, in life, sometimes nice things happen even when we do not expect them and sometimes, few things do not happen when we expect them the most and that too despite our best efforts. In a situation like this, just say to yourself, “So what”, and accept it happily and move on.
Based on my experiences of life, I can confirm with full confidence that whatever happens in our life, is always for good. And invariably, it is for better. I have experienced it so many times that even when He failed me on few occasions, it was always for my own benefit and I came out of it much stronger.
Thirdly, in my experience, this whole existence is working on the “Principle of Karma, that is as we sow, so we reap”. Therefore, what is in our hands, is only to have good intentions on our mind, do good karma and give our best in every situation. We should just do that and then, leave everything to Him and He will definitely take care of it. And He does it. I have experienced it so many times in my own life
And I am so proud of you that you are already so kind-hearted, always helping everyone whomever you can. Keep it up. In your prayers, always ask the God to make you so powerful and resourceful that you are able to help and support so many people, everywhere.
Fourthly, it is quite possible that sometimes despite all your efforts and good karma, things may go wrong here and there. Just think, may be some past karma is showing its result and it will pass soon. My past debt is being repaid. So, I accept it happily. And use the setbacks in life as Launchpad for the Comeback.
Finally, no doubt that earning wealth is important in life and you must earn it with both your hands. But always remember, it is only a means of living a comfortable & happy life and for being able to help others. It is never an end in itself.
You should always have enough time for yourself and also for enjoying the wealth that you are earning. Therefore, let all your decisions be driven by happiness, money will follow in any case, as you continue to give your best in every situation.
In conclusion, the most precious thing in this existence is happiness and nothing is worth losing it for. So always, just be happy and keep enjoying every moment of life. Keep doing good karmas and best will always come on your way.
With love & blessings,
Proud Papa
Experienced professional with over Three decades in the petrochemicals Industry. Currently Independent Advisor for Petrochemical Business. Professional Trainer and Coach - Soft skills
4 年Great post dear Pramod though your first two points were very powerful but somehow Karma of past does not convince me personally. You always walk the talk and look forward to your posts.
Senior Manager at Fiat India automobiles ltd
4 年Great