Let's talk about culture
Chin Ru Foo
Helping leaders build inclusive brands & cultures | Exec Coach | Brand strategy consultant | Speaker | Podcast Host | Founder CEO at CREW & RIOT
Forgive the indulgent food pics (yes, I took these pics, and yes I have eaten and digested them all!) I've been back in Malaysia, my country of birth.
My days have been spent eating unabashedly, sitting vigil by my mum's side in the hospital, having long chats with my sister - exchanging stories and memories about our childhood, revisiting old food haunts and reading when my concentration allows me.
It's making me think a lot about CULTURE.
Specifically 'understanding people' (and understanding myself) through the lens of culture.
As I finished these two books amidst the backdrop of 'home' (I'd recommend them both) - I found that they both coincidentally raise the significance of CULTURE in shaping who we are.
DEFINE CULTURE
In 'How to Know a Person', David Brooks defines CULTURE as:
"A shared symbolic landscape that we use to construct our reality. People who grow up in different cultures see the world differently - sometimes on the most elemental level."
In his premise of getting us to 'see a person deeply' - he outlines that one needs to:
"step back to appreciate the power of group culture and how it is formed over generations and poured into a person. But it also means stepping close and perceiving each individual person in the midst of their lifelong project of crafting their own life and their own point of view, often in defiance of their group's consciousness. The trick is to hold these two perspectives together at the same time."
He adds that:
"People are not passive vessels into which culture is poured; each person is a cultural co-creator, embracing some bits of their culture, rejecting others - taking the stories of the past and transforming them with their own lives. To see a person well, you have to see them as culture inheritors and as culture creators."
And it is these questions from his book that I find myself contemplating:
These are BIG questions - but important ones in the process of excavating who we truly are.
By sharing our cultures and stories with others, and thinking together about what they mean, we learn to understand each other at the deepest level.
HOW DO I SEE YOU EMBRACING OR REJECTING YOUR CULTURE?
(I'm dying to host a supper club with this very question).
Here are some of my thoughts, in no particular order:
These are just a few of my examples. I have so many. I'd encourage you to explore this for yourself.
The process of 'excavation' through the lens of our culture is a fascinating (and revealing) one.
As David Brooks highlights, we are both cultural inheritors and culture creators- embracing some bits of our culture and rejecting others. This shapes our view of the world.
To truly understand someone, we have to be deeply curious about a person's cultural context and upbringing (this is not easy when so many of us have not explored it for ourselves):
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"When I'm looking at you, and trying to know you, I'm going to want to ask you how your ancestors show up in your life. And if you are looking at me, you'll want to ask how the past lives in me."
A GIFT OF HOPE
I made a little podcast episode about HOPE that I genuinely love.
I asked for voice notes on “what hope means to you”.?
I compiled it, and I’m so proud of this one.?It felt like a creative act of generosity.?
It felt like making an assortment goodie tin of hope, filled with different varieties - some like sunshine, some a little crumbly, some a little blue, some with feathers.
I learned that:?
Hope is a choice. Hope is hard. Hope is discipline. Hope is children. Hope is nature. Hope is art. Hope is activism. Hope is fierce. Hope is those in-between spaces we so often overlook.?
It’s my little gift for anyone reaching out to the ether for an assortment biscuit tin of hope.
Go out in nature for a walk and give it a listen!
And then share on as a little gift to someone else.?
And to finish with a little random something - Here is the best Venn diagram in the world ??
Hi, I'm the founder CEO of Crew & Riot.?
My mission is to help leaders build inclusive brands and cultures.
Here's how I can help you:
??Building Brand strategies for business AND social impact
??Innovations with inclusive design principles at its heart.
??Team cultures and leaders who embrace diversity & belonging
??Leadership Coaching (for leaders who want to lead for positive impact.)
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