Let's Talk Assertive Communication ???
Cynthia Barnes
Empowering Women to Rewire Self-Belief & Conquer Imposter Syndrome | Backed by Neuroscience & Research | ‘Thank you; it’s true.’
Today, we're diving deep into the world of communication. Specifically, I want to chat about how to tell the difference between assertiveness, aggression, and passivity. Trust me, it's a game-changer!
Why Should You Care? ??
Well, imagine always saying what you feel without any drama or hurt feelings. That's the beauty of being assertive! But, sadly...
Here's the Thing... ??
A lot of folks get it wrong. They think being assertive is the same as being bossy or aggressive.
Nope!
Why Do People Mix It Up? ??
But hey, I've got your back! Let's break this down.
Your Quick Guide to Nailing Assertive Communication ??
1. Know the Difference ??
2. Self-Check Time! ??
3. Practice Makes Perfect ??
That's it! Dive deeper if you want, but remember: assertive communication is all about balance.
You've got this! ??
~ Cynthia
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Client Relations Specialist. Maitre’d. Ambassador. Networker. Event Planner. Hospitality Trainer. Health and Wellness.
1 年My assertiveness can and does often fall on the feelings on a sensitive younger generation as hurtful. I know what I say and to whom I’m directing it to and when I’m a hustling moment of an event, these hurt people were never disrespected or spoken mean to but in a rush, like a fashion show, these sensitive types make us both ponder our delivery and their unbelievably heightened sense of self over job.
Client Director Soft skills Development, Author and Psychologist
1 年Love this ! As a default people-pleaser myself, I've learnt over the years that it's just a matter of taking the "ass" out of "assertiveness" in finding that right balance. There's no room for aggression if your communication is based on respect (for yourself and others) Thanks for sharing Cynthia ??
Business Development Representative @ Outbound Sales Pro | Strategic Business Development
1 年Great share, Cynthia Barnes! Your perspective on assertiveness vs. aggression is thought-provoking. In your opinion, how do you believe individuals can strike the right balance in advocating for themselves while maintaining positive relationships?
Sr. SME | Transforming healthcare by bridging silos and streamlining systems, platforms, people, and data. Solutions for Today's Challenges.
1 年Reminds me of trying to talk to lawer. That is never fun.