Let's normalise the language of summer

Let's normalise the language of summer

I recently got to take some time off work, a couple of weeks of unplugging and spending time with family and friends. It didn't look *exactly* like the photo above (add a jet lagged toddler and some 'unpredictable' English summer weather for a more realistic mental image), but I did get some time to think about a few things.

One such thing was how the language we use - the actual words we choose - affect and project our relationship with 'vacating.'

Let's start with the out of office.

  • "Sorry I missed you" - Are you though? What do you have to be sorry for? You're on vacation!
  • "I'll be out of the country and won't have regular access to email" - You could be sitting on your couch 6-inches from your wifi router for all I care. Unplug!
  • "The best way to reach me is on my mobile" - Nooooo. Please. Ask. Someone. Else. Even in a client service industry like mine. That's what teams are for.

And then there's the return...

  • "I'm still digging out" - Like the weight of all those emails would be enough to bring down Luisa from Encanto (back to traveling with a toddler...)
  • "I'm just totally SLAMMED now that I'm back" - Sure, there's a lot to catch up on. But an exercise in extreme prioritisation is good discipline for everyone once in a while.

One of the things I read while I was unplugged was this smart piece from Lee Carter at Maslansky, who knows a thing or two about language. She suggests reframing "busy" - which has the unfortunate dual distinction of being both a negative and a badge of honour - to being "full" - a word that can be taken to mean satisfied, content, even grateful.

So I'm going to do just that. I'm not "digging out"; I'm "getting caught up." I'm not "slammed"; I just need a minute to try to get my priorities straight. And I'm not "sorry I missed you"; I'm "so glad we have the chance to catch up now that I'm back."

We need this summer. We deserve this summer. Let's own this summer.

Danielle Hallas

Executive Vice President, Head of Branded Entertainment at Ketchum

2 年

OMG I love this so much and I am thrilled to steal your language and champion it!

Kevin Oates

C-Suite Communications Strategist, Reputation Consultant and Media Coach | Founder, StartingBlock Communications | Former Managing Director and Head of Communications Training @ Ketchum | USC MBA

2 年

Love this! And sorry I texted you while on vacation. But very appreciative of your partnership and perspective.

Charles Cleary

President & CEO at Leadership Outcomes, Inc.

2 年

Great “thunking”, Lisa! I’m beginning to use your expressions immediately! Chip

Matthew Dernoga

Senior Vice President at Edelman DxI

2 年

This is so good. Often times I don’t even realize when I let these words slip out. Important to be mindful!

Kimberly Davis

Communications Strategist

2 年

Spot on. All of it. Absolutely essential shifts in language and perspective as you note, Lisa. I've taken to the practice of removing "slammed" and "busy" from my vocabulary and it did more than just change the conversation. I fully endorse every point you make within. Thanks for sharing it all so eloquently. A favorite line within: "The best way to reach me is on my mobile" - Nooooo. Please. Ask. Someone. Else. Even in a client service industry like mine. That's what teams are for. Trust that there are other people that can be of service.... because there are. Yes. Yes. Yes. Breaks are magical.

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