Let's Do It in Private

Let's Do It in Private

"You say it just like you say have a burger and fries"...that's what Nikki said in a private breakout room during a networking event this morning. I recognize that talking about sex as a normal topic takes a certain amount of maturity. And I also recognize that that is the problem. The average human reverts to the age they were first shamed about touching themselves or perhaps molested or both. Over the past two years where I have been shifting the focus of my business to support highly intelligent, successful, and unfullfilled women to include great multi-orgasmic sex as part of sustainable self-nurturing practices I have heard all sorts of projections and judgements:

Do you have a man?

Are you multi-orgasmic?

Aren't you Muslim?

Do you think you are better at sex than the rest of us?

I am too old for that kind of sex!

Can you help my wife and will you join us?


That is just a sampling. I will answer some of these questions because I want to normalize having these conversations. Ultimately, I understand that having these conversations in private is where the deep internal magic happens and I am the only one who can take you there. Now that your interests is peaked, let's dive into the answers and then I have an invitation for you at the end.

Do you have a man? I prefer to keep this answer private.

Are you multi-orgasmic? Yes, I always have been

Aren't you Muslim? Yes and this is where my permission to honor my sexuality as my birthright as a woman derived. Islam came to give right of ownership to women of her own body, land, money, property and inheritance. As a wife you can divorce you husband for bad sex or no sex. It is also your right to have sex four times a week so schedule that. Finally, you must be sexually fulfilled as part of your marital rights as woman.

Do you think you are better at sex than the rest of us? This has more to do with how you feel about your personal sexual performance than me.

I am too old for that kind of sex! Having great sex with your soul mate with slow your aging process. Having multi-orgasmic sex will make you live forever!

Can you help my wife and will you join us? Yes, I can help you to connect more deeply with each other outside of the bedroom. It is against my personal preference and values to engage with my clients, married couples and anyone who not my soul mate.

And with all that said...let's have a private discussion about this. Let's do it in private. Back in November, I started a beta group of my 1:1 clients and have decided to create more of these private group opportunities. Email me or DM me here on LinkedIn for more information on my private social club focused on normalized great sex and being multi-orgasmic!


I am the Ultimate Joy Goddess - and the CEO of Workout Around My Day Inc. guiding women to be Multi-Orgasmic!! My journey led me to relearning sex as a mindfulness practice and source of enlightenment. Professionally, I am the CEO of Workout Around My Day Inc, speaker and movement facilitator, a four-time best-selling author of eight books, two time award-winning host of The Free to be Show podcast and globally recognized as a Health Thought Leader. Personally I divorced in 2021 after twenty years of marriage, have six children ages 9-23, veteran homeschooling mom.

LaDon Love

Mom, Organizer, Dynamic narrative creator, Executive Director at SPACEs In Action

10 个月

Thank you for your article, Cordelia Gaffar. It is important to be able to talk about intimacy and being intimate with your soulmate. When we are not honest with ourselves about our needs we will not be able to meet our needs. Communicating with your partner about what you like and how it feels is going to support a good time for both.

Charlie Seraphin

Author--The Story of Your Life, When Did You Stop Being You? and One Stupid Mistake

10 个月

How should men respond to this post? Does being recently divorced have a connection to being multi-orgasmic? Not trying to be a jerk, just seeking information.

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