Let's accept our failures

Most people are going through a lot in life, be it at a personal level, at work, or even at the community level. Despite what we are going through it is not easy for some of us to admit that we are failing ourselves. It's never an easy thing to do, but if you can accept defeat and learns ways to improve you will begin to see success.

Failure makes your mind trick you into believing things that aren't true. Failure makes your goals seems less attainable. Failure makes you believe you're helpless. But let us not forget that nobody is above failure. We have all seen a baby trying to crawl, stand, or walk, most babies never succeed but they kept on trying despite often fail, fall, and cry.

Take a moment and ask yourself the below questions while reflecting back on your life.

1. How many times did you deny taking the right path regardless of knowing it?
2. How many times have you said yes to a no answer?
3. How many times have you chosen not to do the right thing?
4. How many times have you denied your character by choosing to impress others? 
5. How many times have you failed to accept the reality despite the red flags?
6. How many times did you say you are okay, and you were not?
7. How many times you shade tears for things you let happen to you knowingly?

How many times……….

1. When are you going to forgive yourself for all the things you did knowingly and unknowingly?
2. When will you fight to have the inner peace?
3. When will you be honest enough to hate what you hate and love what you love without pretending?
4. When will you let go of situations and people that you love but they are holding back?
5. When will you be true to yourself?
6. When will you choose you over everything?
7. When will you be strong enough to break the silence between you and the battles you are fighting?

When will you….?

Take a deep breath, spend time talking to yourself and allow every feeling, every thought, and every pain to take you to a peaceful destination.