The Lessons, Wins, and Losses of Losing a Job

The Lessons, Wins, and Losses of Losing a Job

I’ve been reflecting on my own career journey a lot lately, and how it mirrors the experiences of many professionals—especially those of us who’ve faced the unexpected loss of a job or the pressures of a high-status role. It’s something that’s shaped not only who I am today but how I approach my work as a coach, mentor, and guide for others navigating transitions.

For years, I was the epitome of what you might call a “corporate scientist.” I had the title, the responsibilities, and the status that came with years of hard work in a high-pressure environment. I solved complex problems, led teams, and moved up the ranks. But one day, I realized something important: the person I had become wasn’t the person I truly wanted to be.

I didn’t come to this realization overnight. In fact, it took me burning out to see it clearly.

Like many professionals, I tied so much of my identity to my job. I believed that success was a matter of getting the next promotion, gaining more recognition, and adding more achievements to my list. But when the stress started to take its toll on my health and happiness, I realized that no title, no corner office, and no paycheck was worth sacrificing my well-being.

For me, the burnout was the turning point. Suddenly, I found myself asking tough questions: Who am I outside of this job? What really matters to me? How do I want to live my life moving forward? Feeling Stuck in Your Career? https://prohealthyx.com/reboot-your-career/

Finding a New Path

When I left my corporate career, I didn’t know exactly what my next steps would be. But I knew I had to realign my work with what truly mattered to me. Over time, that became clear: I wanted to help others avoid the same burnout, frustration, and identity crisis I went through. I wanted to help high-achieving professionals manage stress, gain clarity, and find fulfillment in their work and lives.

The journey hasn’t been easy, but it has been deeply rewarding. It’s helped me realize a few key lessons that I now pass on to my clients:

  • Don’t become someone you’re not. I realized that climbing the corporate ladder had turned me into someone disconnected from my true values. Helping others find alignment in their work has shown me the power of living authentically.
  • Never stop learning. Even as I transitioned into coaching, I embraced the mindset of continuous learning, constantly seeking out new knowledge about stress management, health, and personal growth to better serve my clients.
  • Don’t waste time chasing illusions. Titles, status, and external achievements can be deceptive. They don’t define who you are or determine your worth. Focus instead on the value you bring to others and the fulfillment you gain from it.

A New Perspective

Today, I coach professionals in career transitions and leadership roles—people who are struggling with the same stress, overwhelm, and self-doubt that I once faced. And I remind them that the title on their business card doesn’t define their impact or value.

The losses we experience—whether it's losing a job, failing at something, or even stepping away from a role that no longer serves us—are what shape our true strength. They allow us to pivot, grow, and find new opportunities that we may never have imagined.

I’ve found my purpose in guiding others through the uncertainty of career transitions. I’m here to help people turn stress into clarity, and challenges into catalysts for personal growth.

The Takeaway

If you find yourself in a place where you feel stuck, overwhelmed, or questioning whether the path you’re on is the right one, remember that you have the power to rewrite your story. The title on your office door isn’t what makes you valuable. It’s how you choose to show up, the impact you make, and the fulfillment you find along the way.


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Sep Uyttendaele

I help C-suite execs in Finance find a balance between professional life and physical/mental wellbeing | Holistic coaching to help high achievers use their stress positively and improve their health

1 个月

Thanks for sharing your personal story ???? What immense growth and progress, glad to call you mentor and colleague ????

Jan Verhoeven

Majoor Netherlands Air Force

1 个月

Thanks for sharing this.

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