A Lesson for Us All...
Jay Block (Semi Retired)
America's Motivational Rapid Employment Coach; Best-Selling McGraw-Hill Author; Co-founder PARWCC; Good Morning America Guest; Mentor to Industry Coaches and Organizations
The Tale of the Butterfly
The wise old man of the village held a cocoon in the palm of his hand. “What’s that?” the young boy asked.
“Why it’s a cocoon,” replied the wise man. “Inside is a caterpillar that spun this cocoon, and when he’s ready, he’ll break out of the cocoon and turn into a magnificent and wondrous butterfly.”
“Can I have it?” asked the young boy.
“Yes,” answered the wise man. “But first you must promise that you won’t open the cocoon for the butterfly when he begins to break out. The butterfly must do it all by himself. Can you promise me that?” he asked.
The young boy agreed and took the cocoon home with him. The next day the cocoon began to tremble. The butterfly fought hard to escape it. The young boy could not bear to watch the butterfly struggle and after a short while, he broke open the cocoon to help the butterfly escape. The beautiful butterfly soared into the air and suddenly, and quite unexpectedly, plummeted to the ground and died.
The boy returned to the village wise man, crying and cradling the dead butterfly in his hand. “Did you help the butterfly escape from the cocoon?” the old man asked.
“Yes,” replied the child.
“What you didn’t understand,” the wise man said, “was that the butterfly had to struggle in order to build strength in his wings. By working hard, the butterfly was building muscles he needed to fly. By making it easier for him, you made it impossible for him to fly. You killed the butterfly with good intentions.”
All success requires muscle building. Embrace the struggle.
Sales Associate at LifeWave/ Wellness Educator
5 年Well meant is not always well done?? Lovely meaningful story!??
Independent Insurance Advisor
5 年Keep up the good work Jay! Your old friend! Art
Independent Writer and iphoneographer
5 年Sad story, but true, and necessary to relate as a cautionary lesson to promote thriving, strength, personal mastery and independence, and prevent an untimely "death" of life-sustaining activity, creativity and effort.?
Owner/Professional Resume Writing & More (Writer & Job Search Specialist). Teacher/Elementary thru College (Public & Private Institutions).
5 年A powerful lesson in business and in life.? Thank you, Jay.
Facilitator/Executive and Career Transition Coach
5 年I love this. Thank you Jay.?