THE LEAST ADDRESSED EMOTIONAL PAIN – REJECTION !!
We all have been faced this REJECTION – Can you ever imagine that this PAIN is as similar or more painful than a PHYSICAL INJURY !!
Nope, that’s not a metaphor ! It’s been proven by a lot of scientists and theres been many studies, reading the MRI scans of people undergoing REJECTION, compared with people who have had PHYSICAL INJURY !!
There even have been proofs that , people with REJECTION, have had relief, by using pain killers for their extensive emotional pain !!
But, sadly, we often ignore people who are suffering with REJECTION effects. Or even we ourselves ignore our REJECTION side effects – and keep on suffering with it, throughout our life, without knowing the kind of DANGEROUS effects , it causes to our inner health, thus lowering the QUALITY OF LIFE.
Social Rejection can causes various NEGATIVE symptoms like – ANGER, DEPRESSION, JEALOUSY, SADNESS, ANXIETY, EMBARRASSMENT, SHAME HURT, LONELINESS etc. .
It even lowers your productivity on a daily basis, and makes you REACTIVE. It even takes a toll on your sleep quality, and thus deranges your IMMUNE SYSTEM. (A study done by DE WALL , shows these facts).
According to C.NATHAN DEWALL, PhD, a, Psychologist, says that “ Humans have a fundamental need to belong. Just as we have needs for food and water, we also have needs for positive & lasting relationships”.
Often people who have faced REJECTION, tend to become more tolerable and more adjustable in their next relationships , and constantly striving to be more likable !!
According to DE WALL – A ray of HOPE for acceptance , can bring a major difference in their emotional state J
Founder of Almatrichi fashion trade brand and CEO of new brand owner Mintlis
3 年Well the pain is there but we have to insist and keep going on??? Otherwise there is nothing
Freelance Human Resources Consultant
3 年It's a pain borne out of frustration. A sense of injustice overwhelms us for the moment. More so if in similar situations your counterparts have done well.