LEARN TO CARE A DAMN
PERCY JAL ENGINEER

LEARN TO CARE A DAMN

Empowering Nobody's To Be Somebody's.

I know – How you feel! ?What this is going to be all about?

I also know you are having vivid imaginary thoughts – The title has send you spinning. Should You Read This article? Exactly that’s what it is all about!

This article is not about teaching or making you feel How to achieve or win- it is rather about letting you listen to your inner self and understand who all and what in your life you need to ‘Let Go’.

One’s life – rich or poor has many dimensions and can be a bedrock of Happiness or a form of Suffering. Married but yet doubtful – Not married and yet doubtful. Satisfaction of a happiness @ work OR a great enticing job title?

Happiness or sufferings are not mathematical equations that can be balanced. Just as Happiness is momentarily – Sadness is not merely a physical mindful feeling. In fact, my experiences tells me that only thru pain or sufferings mental or physical one realizes the usefulness and identify areas of improvement and wellbeing for our coming future.

Our lives has its own challenges – Tough to find someone who has no problems in life. These problems when get resolved leads to happiness. Therefore Happiness is a constant work-in-progress. For most of my professional career, I was excited and happy with the results I achieved and with that the dream of standing on stages and being awarded and recognized with accolades.

Honestly – I loved every moment of it. However, I soon realized in my later years that things in the corporate world did not change over the years and even today find people who raise on the corporate ladder are people who sacrifice their personal lives, their families and their work values and ethics by mingling with politics to climb the corporate ladder.

No don’t get me wrong. I understood that you have to survive with ignorance and inexperience of some individuals and start to believe in their bullshit.

Instead of feeling bad and disillusioned, create a self-drawn measure to feel happy and survive by creating your own niche to become successful in what you are assigned to do and accomplish.

Understand what makes you feel happy or sad-or angry. Being a Rock Star an Achiever – surely made me feel special. How did I become a Rock Star? Did I really enjoy and cherished those moments.

So here – I share my Success Mantra!

Rule # 1… understanding that Happiness is momentary – temporary. Rule # 2 … the people around you are jealous of your success. Rule # 3… stay positive – Care a damn for what this losers have to say about you. Rule # 4… care damn of these naysayers & keep on improving yourself by accepting responsibility. Rule # 5... accept the changes and challenge. Don’t blame others.

Today, at the far end of what?I believe there may be an opportunity or a call to change your career . Do not see yourself standing at the edge of a cliff as if one wrong foot will get you going downhill. Instead enjoy the swirl of the winds blowing across your face making you feel the chill telling you “This is Not The End – But a Beginning” - ? Every Change is an Opportunity in the Being.

For many it’s the culture at your workplace or in the fabric of the society that will determine your state of mind – your thinking abilities and ultimately How You feel of yourself.

You and only You –Yourself is the Master of your Destiny. So keep saying to yourself- ‘You are the Best after all in today’s world it’s all about you & you alone. Learn to accept challenges and change. Only those who believe in themselves think positive and change will survive. The most common enemy lies within ourselves – ‘To Whatever Failure or Success & Challenges, we face is the Reflection of Our Attitude & Ego.?Don’t feel angry at others – remind yourself – You Are the Reason of Your Happiness! =================================================================The view expressed by the author in no way relates to any individual or organization that the author has been a part of.?Percy is an avid reader and a devote follower of art of living. His writings are a result of grasping best practices from concepts read,learned and practiced during his extensive professional journey.? ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

A very thoughtful and well written article Percy. Believe in yourself and follow your dreams. Also what led to the great resignation/big quit en masse beginning in early 2021, primarily in the United States.

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