Laws Of Averages v Laws Of Attraction For Dating

I was at the Brooklyn Nets game recently talking to a male friend. I was asking why the players couldn't make simple free throws after being fouled.

I said, "As much as they get paid surely they could practice it more". And practicing it over and over again will increase their ability and their self confidence. He went on and on about the Laws of Averages and how it wouldn't matter.

So, I asked, "What about the Laws of Attraction?

He looked at me dumbfounded. I said, "What about Olympic athletes who visualize winning and end up succeeding and earning medals? Like Michael Phelps."

It got me thinking about the difference between the Laws of Averages and the Laws of Attraction.

According to Wikipedia, "The law of averages is the commonly held belief that a particular outcome or event will, over certain periods of time, occur at a frequency that is similar to its probability. Depending on context or application it can be considered a valid common-sense observation or a misunderstanding of probability".

Rachel Poulsen explains it better in her interesting article about the "Laws of Averages", https://www.svds.com/law-of-averages/

Personally, I prefer the Laws of Attraction. Because it works.

Along with teaching dating techniques and strategies, I also educate my clients on how to use LOA effectively. The ones who end up in relationships use the tools I present to create the relationship they desire. The men- well, they simply show up.

For many daters, I witness them treating dating like a numbers game. I'm sure they learned this from the Laws of Averages in sports, science and sales. They believe that if they swipe right on every attractive person, one is bound to connect. And they're right. They’ll get some responses.

But, if they're hoping for more than just a connection, that's where they lose. The majority of consistent right swipers don't get a second or third date. Without a second or third date, it becomes problematic to be in a relationship. Is this why so many of you grow frustrated and say you hate dating?

With dating, you only need one person to create a relationship.

Wouldn’t you like to increase your odds by consciously attracting the right one to you? Or do you have loads of time to waste?

I think not.

What's been your results If you're dating and using dating apps?

Want to join me at the next workshop and learn how to use dating apps the right way?

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Date effectively by being intentional,

Elizabeth