The Law of Eyes and 'I''s.

Humans lie. You lie. Actually, everyone lies all the time. We spend most of our time lying. Can you believe that? They are small or large lies but mostly our days are filled with lies. Okay, lets call them misrepresentations of the truth. Mostly these are misrepresentation of ourselves to ourselves; but indeed many times they are misrepresentations to other people in our everyday activities.

So why do you lie? Why do we misrepresent ourselves? Well it's 90% because you don't trust or even like yourself. You don't like what you are, what you've become or the fact that you can't change it easily, or worse it's what earth-life demands you to be; something you are not.

Illusions and delusions are a way of Human life. Unlike animals - that have little to zero ego - humans are predisposed to follow a living-vector of fallacy. Humans create illusions and misrepresentations everywhere. Our economies are an illusion. Our monetary systems are an illusion, our history is an illusion. World politics and World Media is an illusion. Our Medicine, our Education and practically everything we see or don't see is an illusion. Most cannot perceive the illusion - in fact most are determined that what their eyes tell them is true and real. The illusion is so grand and convincing, humans fight and kill to sustain the illusion.

Moreover, there are illusions of the world in general and illusions of Themselves. So we are all actors playing roles; false roles and false narratives.

Most humans are downright lost and lonely. Divorce is a clear sign that humans have lied to each other at a deep level, and constantly. Most people are dishonest and whilst misrepresenting themselves they push themselves along a vector where they are surrounded by false and delusional dynamics. False friends. False wealth. False health. Bravado is all that spurts forth from them. Like the louder, more obnoxious, more loquacious, more vociferous one is the deeper the delusions and lies and misrepresentations they seemingly possess. Especially in the West this is true. Most of the West lives in a deep state of delusion. Divorce is higher there. Crime is higher there. Sales and selling here is encouraged at all cost. False narratives and false belief premises are higher there. The Western System of understanding and laying out life is riddled with deeply false narratives. [3]

How does one discern lies and liars, and misrepresentations, and persons that are telling the truth and living truths?

Most persons live below the 'blue line of honesty and morality'. Most are governed by and interact with ONLY with the pre-conscious and un-conscious [false and lying] personality. [2]

The Eyes.

Well firstly Westerners have a problem looking in the eyes of another. Try this - next time you converse with someone look them deep in the eyes...try to hold that stare and gaze into their eyes. I can tell you right now - it wont last more than 3-11 seconds. Impossible. If you are a general liar; and general misrepresentation of truth, and largely uncomfortable with yourself and your surroundings and your life style, you will not be able to look into the eyes of anyone. Not even close family members. Oh, It's easier to look into their eyes (due only to familiarity), but for sure looking in the eyes of business colleagues, or strangers, or customers for you is almost impossible. You can't even look your wife [or husband] in the eye. You were desperately lonely...you married you spouse because you were lonely. And you will cheat and divorce because of it. This is what the Western Statistics say. Oh, and this is much more prevalent in men. Women are far more honest and 'legitimate'; truthful. Men are patent liars and live a riddled life of insecurity.

The 'I'.

Another way to discern this ailment, is to read texts, or writings or anything written from someone. It is almost impossible for Westerners to say or use 'I'!

"I am wanting love."

"I am wanting respect."

"I am needing your help."

"I can help you."

"I thank you for this...or for that."

[2] Westerners, as largely liars, cannot us the 'word' I comfortably. It is seemingly a perfectly discernible illustration of the disconnect between a legitimate conscience and a false consciousness. Saying or using 'I' creates a vulnerability; a sincerity with others. 'I' implies a personal and open and true personality is being evoked or invoked. When persons use 'I' they are true to themselves and to those they are conversing with. Personalities that use the 'I' comfortably are truer to themselves and others. As most contemporary philosophers [sic] posited, Freud spoke of the ID which which is "made of up of unconscious psychic energy that attends to the basic needs of the personality". When this energy is 'fallacious, untrue or insincere, it will become clear the Protagonist cannot easily use the word 'I'.

Social media is perfectly designed to largely weed out liars and misrepresentations because Users cannot hide themselves there. It's obvious truths are outed there. When personal interactions occur here is where the lies and misrepresentations occur, and where the 'I' and Eyes are easily discernible for revealing true character.[1]

Next time you attend a sales meeting - check to see if the sales person, the preacher, the politician, the economist, the doctor or your SPOUSE, can use the word 'I' easily and frequently in conversation?

In every case, you would be better served finding someone else that uses 'I' and their Eyes comfortably and truthfully.

---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------I am a MIND Coach, a Professional Derivatives Trader and an ABSTRACT Artist.

[1] https://www.acapnj.org/sigmund-freud-and-21st-century-social-media-id-ego-superego-as-social-media-platforms/

[2] https://www.simplypsychology.org/psyche.html

[3] https://www.digitalpsychology.net/psychology/freud-the-id-ego-and-superego/