Law of Attraction

Some people, regardless of their looks, lack of money or social connections, always radiate with confidence and energy and have charming personalities.

They are the ones that you turn to for help, advice, and companionship. You admire them, and they leave you asking yourself,

"What do they have that I don't? ... What makes them so irresistible?"

The difference is that their sense of self-worth comes from within.

Irresistible people aren’t constantly searching for validation, because they’re confident enough to find it in themselves. There are certain habits that they pursue every day to maintain this healthy perspective.

So, what are these habits of irresistible people so that you can use them to your benefit?

1.They Treat EVERYONE with Respect no matter what their status.

2. They Ditch the Small Talk but make connections and find depth even in short conversations.

3. They Focus on People more than anything else with a genuine interest in those around them.

4. They don’t try too hard by dominating conversations.

5. They Recognize the Difference Between Fact and Opinion. They are happy to share their opinions, but they make it clear that they are opinions, not facts and recognize that many people who are just as intelligent as they are see things differently.

6. They are Authentic and have Integrity. They are who they are, and people gravitate toward authentic individuals because they know they can trust them. They avoid talking bad about other people, and they do the right thing, even when it hurts.

7. They Make an Effort to Look Their Best. They understand that making an effort to look your best is a sign of respect for others.

8. They Find Reasons to Love Life. They’re never bored, because they see life as an amazing adventure and approach it with a joy that other people want to be a part of. They approach problems as temporary obstacles and when things go wrong, they remind themselves that a bad day is just one day, and they hope that tomorrow or next week or next month will be better.

9. They Follow the Platinum Rule not the Golden Rule

The Golden Rule—treat others as you want to be treated has a fatal flaw. It assumes that all people want to be treated the same way. It ignores the fact that people are motivated by vastly different things. One person loves public recognition, while another loathes being the centre of attention.

The Platinum Rule—treat others as they want to be treated corrects that flaw. Irresistible people are great at reading other people, and they adjust their behaviour and style to make others feel comfortable.

10. They Smile People naturally, and unconsciously, mirror the body language of the person they’re talking to. If you want people to find you irresistible, smile at them during conversations and they will unconsciously return the favour and feel good as a result.

To sum it all up Irresistible people do not have fairy godmothers. They have simply perfected certain appealing qualities and habits that anyone can adopt.

They think about other people more than they think about themselves, and they make other people feel liked, respected, understood, and Seen.

Are You Irresistible?

Just remember: the more you focus on others, the more irresistible you will be.