There Is A Last Time For Everything
Last week?we?wrapped up our?final?Roadshow event for 2024 in Las Vegas. When I checked into the?Four?Seasons,?where we were hosting the event, I was told?by the concierge desk?that they were “blowing up a hotel” later that evening (exact words). I said, “I hope it’s not the one we’re in!”
She quickly explained that at 2:30 a.m., the?iconic?Tropicana?Hotel?across the street was being imploded to make way for a new baseball stadium. Very sad.?When it originally opened in 1957, the Tropicana was the most expensive and lavish resort in all of Vegas, nicknamed the “Tiffany of the?Strip”?for its opulence. It pioneered the iconic “feathered showgirl,” or “Folies Bergère,” as?it’s?called in France, which has come to be?a staple costume?among?Vegas?showgirls.?The hotel?was the backdrop of famous movies like Elvis’s?Viva Las Vegas,?the classic James Bond film?Diamonds Are Forever?and?The?Godfather.?It became the spot for jazz in Las Vegas and hosted?acts like Mel Tormé, Benny Goodman?and?Louis Armstrong,?to name a few.?Despite the?connection to the mob?early on (later pushed out),?the Tropicana was?the epitome of classic, vintage Las Vegas.
But like all?good?things here on earth,?at some point?they come to an end.?
At the time of writing this, my daughters are still young?but growing fast. My oldest, now 14, used to wake up every morning?and?make a sleepy trudge to my office?(which is right down the hall from her bedroom)?to?cuddle with me on my lap for a few minutes before getting ready for school. Somewhere around nine years old, she started skipping her routine, until one day she stopped altogether.?Now she?flies?by my office in the morning on her way out to school without so much?as?a “See?ya, Ma!”?I cannot tell you how much my heart longs to have my innocent sweet baby girl come and sit on my lap and hug me around the neck one more time.?Thank goodness the 10-year-old hasn’t hit the terrible teens yet and still likes me, LOL.?But with both of my girls, there?was a last time I gave?them a bath and?played peek-a-boo.?A?last?time?we played Candy Land, a last time we?made cookies for?Santa?and put glittery oatmeal on the lawn to attract the reindeer. A?last time we played on the swings at the playground.?These were magical moments?that are now just very fond memories.
There was a last time I saw my brother before he was brutally?shot and killed?by a neighbor.?I just didn’t?know?it would be the last time. There was?the last?time I told my Nana and Pop-Pop I loved them.?A last time when?I took my best friend in the world, a 12-pound Jack Russell named Ozzy, for a walk?–?an activity we both loved.
So,?remember, there IS a last time for everything.?The very things you are unhappy about and complaining?over?today?will come to an end at some point?–?going to the office, grinding out the work,?the pressure of deadlines, the early mornings?and?the?steady stream of problems to solve, fueled by caffeine and swear words. But all the good that comes with it will come to an end too – the comradery of working with your team, the?satisfaction that comes from a job well-done, praise from a?raving-fan client, the brief shining moments when you get it all?right.?And when that’s GONE, it’s GONE. Over. Done.?Finito.?
So,?be sure to tell?your spouse, your kids, your friends?you love them. Often. Tell them today, because they might be gone tomorrow. There is a last time for everything.
Stop and have a friendly conversation with your mom, dad, a friend, the guy at the coffee shop you frequent. Take just a few minutes for this,?more often than you do. Especially today.?Tell your?clients, employees and vendors you appreciate them.?They might be gone tomorrow. Or you might?be gone tomorrow.
If you, like me, have a lot of aches, limitations?and old injuries?that make?working out painful, remember that you still CAN do SOMETHING and be extremely grateful for it. Some?people can’t do any workout anymore.?There is a last time for everything. Whatever it is that you really, really enjoy doing, really, really, really enjoy it the next time you do it.?
When you go to your job or place of business today, be thankful you’ve got one and give it the very best you’ve got.?Say thank you to your boss and your customers. If you’re in charge, remember to show gratitude for your employees, your clients, vendors and other people who support you.?Tomorrow, a thousand entrepreneurs will close business doors – and then?wish they’d done something differently. Maybe they’ll wonder what might have happened if they’d advertised more creatively, sold more aggressively?or invested more time into learning how to run a business.?
Whatever you’re going to do today, give it your best?and appreciate ALL that comes with it?–?the pain, the stress and the work.?There is a last time for everything. Opportunities don’t last forever—don’t miss this one. Join our upcoming live webinar to learn proven strategies that can boost your MSP’s revenue and efficiency and secure a profitable future for your business. Take action now and secure your spot before it’s too late. Register now!
As always, Robin Robins, you articulate and deliver the goods with your stories and wit. I tell folks all the time “Everything is temporary — the bad feelings and situations that must be endured, and unfortunately, that good experience bringing the highest of joys of the moment.” Each will eventually give way to another memorable moment — be it a not-so-thrilling groan spot as well as an exhilarating achievement to celebrate. Can’t have one without the other and it all changes, even perspectives on one’s own experiences. Good post, Robin!
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1 个月What a powerful reflection on both the history of Las Vegas and the fleeting nature of life’s moments. It’s a reminder that everything has its time, whether it’s iconic places like the Tropicana or cherished moments with loved ones. Your words truly capture how important it is to savor the present and express gratitude, especially for the people around us. Thank you for sharing this—it's a beautiful reminder to appreciate the "now" before it becomes a memory. Thank you, very much appreciated!
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1 个月Love this! And TMT too!
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1 个月Robin Robins, your heartfelt reflection (rant) in TMT's "Last Time for Everything" really struck a chord with me. I’ve learned not to take anything—or anyone—for granted, especially after the challenges brought by COVID. This journey has truly taught me the importance of gratitude and thankfulness. We sincerely thank you, Robin Robins, for always showing up and giving ??. The Lerepco IT Group has been part of TMT since 2016, and throughout the years, we’ve received nothing but support, encouragement, and well wishes. I still read my “Genius of the Month” award every day to remind myself to keep going. I remember finally quieting the head trash and deciding to apply. Honestly, I didn’t think I had a chance of winning, but the numbers and the essay told a different story. In the spirit of "Last Time for Everything," thank you, Robin Robins, and the entire TMT team, for everything you do. It was wonderful reconnecting with some of you in Newark the roadshow, Debi Bush, MC Tracy, Mike Stodola and more. A special shout-out to Charles Swihart, Robb Patterson who even reached out with an email just to check in, followed with a phone conversation. The relationships we’ve built with TMT over the years have been absolutely priceless!