The Last Smoke: Mr. Kumar's Struggle
Rahul Padmanabhan
Medical Director at Dr Rahul's Elder Care, Senior Care Consultant, Long Term Care Expert
Mr. Kumar was a vibrant and lively man well into his seventies. His neighbors often saw him briskly walking around the apartment complex, sharing a laugh with friends, or setting off on his frequent travels. Life had been kind to him, and he cherished every moment. Since the tender age of sixteen, Mr. Kumar had maintained one unwavering habit—smoking. Six cigarettes a day became a ritual, a companion through his highs and lows.
A month ago, Mr. Kumar returned from visiting his son in Bangalore, only to fall ill with a severe chest infection. The diagnosis was Community Acquired Pneumonia, a condition that landed him in the hospital for several days. The doctors were firm in their advice: he had to quit smoking immediately. His children, worried and determined, vowed to keep him away from cigarettes.
With his health frail from the infection, Mr. Kumar had little choice but to comply. His children took meticulous care to ensure no cigarettes were within his reach. Despite his pleas for just a few cigarettes a day, his requests were ignored. This enforced abstinence left him feeling depressed and unmotivated.
One desperate evening, craving the comfort of his old habit, Mr. Kumar attempted to buy cigarettes on his own. The effort ended tragically as he fell on the stairs, leading to his children’s harsh reprimands. The fall marked the beginning of a steep decline in his health and spirits.
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Depression set in deeper, overshadowing his once lively demeanor. His appetite dwindled, and soon, Mr. Kumar was bedridden. No amount of friendly visits or encouraging words from his old friends could lift his spirits. The vibrant man who once lived with a zest for life now lay listless, a shadow of his former self.
Was it really necessary to strip Mr. Kumar of his long-held habit so abruptly? Could the physicians have been more considerate of his lifelong addiction and his advanced age? His children only wanted the best for him, but did they understand the impact of their actions on his mental and emotional well-being? Was there a middle ground, where Mr. Kumar could have been allowed his smoke, even in moderation, to maintain his dignity and happiness?
The story of Mr. Kumar raises difficult questions about the balance between medical advice and quality of life. It’s a poignant reminder that sometimes, the things that keep us going are more than just physical—they're deeply woven into the fabric of our lives.
Consultant cardiologist at Dr. Kamakshi Memorial Multi..
8 个月A doctor who once smoked or still smoking has an advantage ..he would empathise with the old man .... nonsmoking children can be naively tyrannical
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8 个月Thought provoking...this story highlights the importance of holistic approach for Geriatric Health and Wellness.