The Language We Use to Lead
Matt Arnold - The Coaching Guy
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What we say, and how we say it, shapes the culture, morale, and outcomes within our teams. As leaders, our words can either build them up or knock them down. Leadership demands intentionality and an evolving skillset. This week, we explore how thoughtful communication creates meaningful impact, recognising that leadership is about the effect of our words, not just our intent.
QUOTES
"The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place." George Bernard Shaw
"People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." ?Maya Angelou
"The art of communication is the language of leadership." ?James Humes
"Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless."??Mother Teresa
QUIBBLE
The debate around leadership language...
Many argue that thoughtful language in leadership builds trust, encourages growth, and fosters collaboration. Leaders who adapt their communication styles to their teams create environments of respect and understanding, where individuals feel valued and motivated.
Others may argue that focusing too much on communication style can lead to inauthenticity. Overanalysing every word risks diluting genuine intentions and may hinder quick decision-making, especially in high-pressure situations.
Effective leadership isn’t about perfection; it’s about consistency and growth. Striking a balance between authenticity and intentionality helps leaders align their words with their values.
The language we use as leaders has a ripple effect, influencing how others perceive and perform.
To ensure your words build rather than break…
Pause Before Speaking - Take a moment to consider how your words might be received.
Tailor Communication - Adapt your style to suit the needs of your audience and context.
Speak with Empathy -?Choose language that uplifts, encourages, and supports growth.
Seek Feedback -?Regularly ask your team how your communication affects them—listen and adjust.
Leadership is a journey of constant refinement. Intentions are important, but impact is everything.
QUESTION
How often do you reflect on the impact of your words as a leader? Are they building a culture of trust and growth, or unintentionally creating barriers?
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