Know yourself
Esra Osman
Business Visionary | Author & Productivity Expert | Helping Individuals and Companies Achieve Their Full Potential | Future Forbes #1 Woman in Business | Career Coach| Content Manager?
The tumultuous life we live has made us forget who we are and what our dreams are, waking up every day to perform routine activities that almost kill us and extinguish our happiness and with social media that fake the world and the facts and everyone in it claims idealism and perfection! We have been affected by various self-diseases, those comparisons that make us feel inferior see everyone develop and live happily except us, increased rates of anxiety, depression, suicide and dissatisfaction and living a fake life only to please others and not yourself to appear in this ideal and perfection, you lost yourself in the midst of this mess, you are looking for it and you do not find it
Who am I?
What do I want?
What are my dreams?
It's time to take that cover off of yourself, the cover that society has put on you to reveal your true self, your real self that you left in search of things that you thought were right for you, just because others succeeded in them.
“The success of others in some way does not mean that it is appropriate for you, everyone has a different path and the way that led to someone's success does not necessarily lead to your success, you are a different person and you have different circumstances”.
Talk to yourself and listen to your inner voice, know yourself.
“ Knowing yourself is the beginning of the path to success, and it is the secret to success.”
Don't underestimate your dreams or ambitions.
Ask yourself what do you like?
What skills do you have?
And what skills do you want to have?
What are your values?
And what good qualities do you want to keep?
And what bad qualities do you want to get rid of?
And how do you want to see yourself in a year, two, five, ten, from now?
Ask yourself and write these answers in a notebook. Make this notebook specifically to get to know yourself.
“ When you get to know yourself, then you can know the world in the correct way. The path to yourself leads to the world and when you light a candle inside you the universe lights up.”
the inner darkness is what leads to seeing bad in the world, so if you are truly happy from the inside, no external influence will be able to cause your unhappiness, and as they say, happiness comes from the inside, be beautiful, and you will see a beautiful existence.
Be a friend to yourself, give her gifts, don't underestimate her, and don't make her feel inferior, so when you love yourself you become able to love the world.
Reaching self-satisfaction is not as easy as you expect but is the result of continuous effort and continuous work and constant affirmations for yourself, do not wait for someone to tell you that you can, do not wait for someone to love you until you love yourself this is not the right way to reach
Be the donor of love for yourself.
Be the motivator for yourself.
Gaining your love for yourself through the other will make you hate it while this person stops loving you when he stays away from you, so love must come from within you, not from someone else who will give it to you whenever he wants and take it whenever he wants.