Kindness & Impact

Kindness & Impact

Dr. Frank Mayfield was touring Tewksbury Institute when, on his way out, he accidentally collided with an elderly floor maid.?

"How long have you worked here?"

"I've worked here almost since the place opened," the maid replied.

"What can you tell me about the history of this place?" he asked.

"I don't think I can tell you anything, but I could show you something."

With that, she took his hand and led him down to the basement under the oldest section of the building.?

She pointed to one of what looked like small prison cells, their iron bars rusted with age, and said, "That's the cage where they used to keep Annie Sullivan."

"Who's Annie?" the doctor asked.

Annie was a young girl who was brought in here because she was incorrigible—nobody could do anything with her. She'd bite and scream and throw her food at people.?

The doctors and nurses couldn't even examine her. I'd see them trying with her spitting and scratching at them.

"I was only a few years younger than her myself and I used to think, 'I sure would hate to be locked up in a cage like that.'?

I wanted to help her, but I didn't have any idea what I could do. I mean, if the doctors and nurses couldn't help her, what could someone like me do?

"I didn't know what else to do, so I just baked her some brownies one night after work. The next day I brought them in. I walked carefully to her cage and said, 'Annie, I baked these brownies just for you. I'll put them right here on the floor and you can come and get them if you want.'

"Then I got out of there just as fast as I could because I was afraid she might throw them at me.?

But she didn't. She actually took the brownies and ate them. After that, she was just a little bit nicer to me when I was around. And sometimes I'd talk to her. Once, I even got her laughing.

One of the nurses noticed this and she told the doctor. They asked me if I'd help them with Annie. I said I would if I could. So that's how it came about that. Every time they wanted to see Annie or examine her, I went into the cage first and explained and calmed her down and held her hand.

This is how they discovered that Annie was almost blind."

After they'd been working with her for about a year—and it was tough sledding with Annie—the Perkins institute for the Blind opened its doors. They were able to help her and she went on to study and she became a teacher herself.

Annie came back to the Tewksbury Institute to visit, and to see what she could do to help out.?

The Director thought about a letter he'd just received. A man had written to him about his daughter. She was absolutely unruly—almost like an animal. She was blind and deaf as well as 'deranged.'

He was at his wit's end, but he didn't want to put her in an asylum. So he wrote to the Institute to ask if they knew of anyone who would come to his house and work with his daughter.

And that is how Annie Sullivan became the lifelong companion of Helen Keller.

When Helen Keller received the Nobel Prize, she was asked who had the greatest impact on her life and she said, "Annie Sullivan."

But Annie said, "No Helen...?

The woman who had the greatest influence on both our lives was a floor maid at the Tewksbury."

Helen Keller and Anne Sullivan had a real impact on the world:

  • In 1916, Helen Keller and Anne Sullivan went on a lecture tour under the auspices of the?Y.W.C.A. to help others.
  • The story of Keller and Sullivan and their journey has been told in movies produced in 1919, 1957,1979, 1980 & 2002.
  • The story was a?popular Broadway play in 1962 with a revival in 2010.
  • In 2003, Sullivan was inducted into the?National Women's Hall of Fame.
  • In 1980 the United States Postal Service issued a?commemorative stamp, honoring Helen Keller and Anne Sullivan.

All because of a kind Floor Maid.

In 1886, graduating at age 20 as the?valedictorian?of her class, Sullivan said:

"Fellow-graduates: Duty bids us go forth into active life. Let us go cheerfully, hopefully, and earnestly, and set ourselves to find our especial part. When we have found it, willingly and faithfully perform it; for every obstacle we overcome, every success we achieve tends to bring man closer to God and make life more as He would have it."

Lesson: You never know whose life you are going to impact with simple kindness.



David Haas, CFP?

Helping Clients Make Better Financial Decisions as President at Cereus Financial Advisors and creator of College Money Match. Also President-Elect of Financial Planning Association of NJ

8 个月

Besides the act of kindness aspect to this story, I think it has another moral. You should never throw people away because of behavior. People maybe going through something or have a disability that you know nothing about. Stop and think about why someone may be reacting the way they are and how you might be able to help.

Mike Schwanz

whseman/shipping & recieving. at Waxie Sanitary Supply

8 个月

Kindness can help people feel more connected and build social connections, which can be especially important during traumatic events. It can also help people expect the same kindness in return. Business Kindness can be a vital strength in business, and can help people grow their reputation.

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Marc Daner

I help you build & protect wealth. || Founder, Daner Wealth || CFP? || Husband & Father

8 个月

This is a great reminder of the impact simple acts of kindness can have. The floor maid’s compassion transformed Annie Sullivan’s life and, indirectly, Helen Keller’s journey. It shows the importance of empathy and how small, thoughtful actions can have far-reaching effects.

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