THE KEY TO GETTING EVERYTHING YOU WANT RIGHT NOW
What drives you more…
Attaining a goal or having the material item in your possession?
Or
The way it makes you feel or the way you think it will make you feel?
I am not trying to be ethereal here. I love attaining my goals and I love my possessions. The biggest thing I grapple with is feeling like and being the person who attains the things I want and experiences the things I want.
I boil this down to an old cliché…
Be – Do – Have
The biggest thing we all know is what we want to have. What seems second clearest is building a plan of doing some action that eventually leads to us having whatever we ultimately desire. The least clear of the three is who do I have to Be to get what I want to have? Over the years in my search of how do I get more of what I want it always comes back to being more of what I want.
What person do you have to be daily to accomplish everything you want in life? Most of us say I will feel this way when I get what I want. The key is to knowing how you would feel when you accomplish what you want and asking yourself could I feel that way now? This doesn’t mean you should give up on actually having and obtaining the object of your desire, but why wait to feel the way you want to feel.
I don’t have everything I will every want in life or want to experience, but I do have everything I need. The stress and the feeling of confusing what we want with what we need. If you live in America you have everything you need, but probably don’t have what you want and that stresses you out. It does me!
Why not understand you have everything you need and you can even feel like you would if you had everything you wanted.
The question is what do you have to feel like if you had everything you wanted? Who would you be if you had everything you wanted?
What…
Standards
Expectations
Accountability
Discipline
Would you live by? Could you possess the same now?
If you don’t know what SEAD you should have right now how do you find out? Get in the environment of the people who have what you want and model their behavior.
· What clothes do they wear?
· What posture do they hold?
· What tone do they hold?
· What is their energy level?
The key is to model the people who already have what you want. Then Be the way that person is, Do what that person does and Have what you want to have!