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My time only for the real talk. What does the real talk really mean? From my point of view, it’s the conversation that can add value for both parties. Real chat is boring? No. Values here, please think widely. We gain something after that. More jokes, more knowledge about fashion, know how to avoid that kind of stupid failure, or maybe even know about your brain workflow, your heart absorb the feelings flow so next time I can predict your intention, etc.
Real talk is very flexible. Business meeting can be a real talk, brainstorming session can be a real talk, lover dinner can be a real talk. Talking to yourself can be a real talk. It's just, where the value is being created, it's the real talk.
EXCHANGE VALUE is the only reason why we are in the meeting. It’s win — win situation, both parties gain more values, we’re both happy. That's how the real talk works.
Imagine we are in a business meeting, Marketing team brainstorming session about the next project campaign planning.
We brainstorm, discuss to get the work done in the most effective way with the support from both parties own ideas.
Results: both happy, both aware of the next step, both know how to optimize the work to get in done in a better, relaxed, easy way leading to the best result, both win right?
Why have to create more hatred? Turning our partners to our enemies? Fighting, trying to win then after that, both sides get angry, unhappy? What value both parties get? It's just your ego got entertainment, it’s not the value. You got nothing after that, to be honest.
Dude, think for yourself. Relaxed, my frien! I come here with no harm, let's make love, not make wars, okay? =)) (if u know what i mean lmao)
We are all ears, yes. But we need to add a filter in that, so what we hear to what in our mind, they are only the learning points.
No time for chit chat meaninglessly!
So please, listen, think then response before you react. Respect yourself. You deserved to be better, to gain more values, more meaningful thing in your life.
Stay strong, fellas!
Love you, XOXO
Katherine