Just Parenting Or Good Parenting?

There is no such thing as a perfect Parent. So just be a real one.

Behind every young child who believes in himself is a parent who believed him first. Being a parent, every person seems to be full of life, but in reality, this is not the end of life, there is a new beginning and responsibilities. Parenting style largely affects the child's today and tomorrow. The way parents raise their children, decides the relationship between them on a very large extent. Every parent wants their children to be happy and grow. For this, many parents become harder with their children, so some are very soft.

Parents often get worried about the behavior of their children, and as a result begin to appear strictly with them. Experts say that this attitude of the parents makes the children vulgar. Many times, parents do not understand the problem of their growing children. As a result, gap between the children and the parents comes into contact. They start to oppose everything.

According to psychologists, a good and effective parenting style does not come naturally and, to be a good parent, you have to know the effective parenting style.

In this article we are going to share some of the major concerns’ parents face while raising up their little ones. So here we go:

Almost every day we hear about the increasing cases of depression in teenagers. Yes!! You hear right. Almost 70% of the population suffering from depression is teenager. In the growing stage, a child needs proper care and affection of his parents. There are many changes going on in the life and mind of growing children. This change is not sudden in a teenaged child, but parents do not understand this and they start behaving vigorously with them. The correct way is that parents work with patience, so that children listen and act on your point.

Things which impact a child’s mind in a negative manner and the child parent relationship are highlighted below:

·       Comparisons and Labels made by parents

·       Argument with children on every mistake they made

·       Bad behavior in front of children

·       Lack of quality time spend together.

Whatever the children speak, they learn from their parents. Parents are children's inspirations and children learn everything from them. That is why children should be given right, respectful, and good behavior.

Few points are highlighted below for a better parenting:

·       Spend quality time

Whether you are doing a job or a business, spending time with children is very important. Children also want them to get more and more congruence of their parents. Even when this does not happen, children become irritable.

Being their friend is the best duty of a good parent. Let your children choose their favourite sport and play that game with them. It makes you easy to understand your children and the child also realizes that you worry about their right.

·       Increase communication

Involve children in your conversation too. Talk to them about the school and ask about the activities there. As much as the scope of the conversation increases, the more openly the children will be able to talk to you on every issue.

·       Understand your child

Try to know what your child wants, what things he is interested in. Promote the kind of things she is interested in. Whether a child Is small or grown up parents should sit together with children to watch TV. From this you will be able to know what the child is learning good from the TV. What things the child is getting updated with. Let them see the same program, which is enlightening.

·       Give your children a lot of love

Try to give the amount of love your child wants Hugging your children and chatting with them, make their mind calm and they will pay attention to the things of the parents.

·       Always tell the truth to your children

Whenever the children ask any questions from you, give them the right answers as much as you can and tell the truth. The children's mind is very different, the truer and truer you will tell them, the more they will trust you and will gain the same habit, but if they are told wrong and false they will also learn the same.

·       Do not compare your children with others' children.

Many times, parents make competition among their own children. Sometimes kids are competed in early homework, and sometimes in quick food items. Your behaviour causes inferiority in the child and you do not even know. Her self-confidence starts decreasing, so the child starts cutting out from outside and talking to people.

·       Treat children as children

Sometimes what happens is that the parents start thinking that the children have grown up and they do not need to teach them much more. Or sometimes think that children are not well educated even when they are grown and parents are in a hurry to raise them. Remember to let children grow like children, gradually let them play with fun.

·       Always Promote Children and Encourage them

If you always raise children with fear and scolding, how can you think that they will grow up happily and with open mind. Children should always be encouraged so that they can go ahead and face everything with fearlessness.

·       Keep your intrusion in control in front of your children

Children should never get infiltrated because they have a bad effect on them. Whenever a child makes a mistake, instead of putting them in peace, explain it calmly because some children are being irritated, some intruders and others are afraid of fear.

·       Give full attention to the education of children

Children are the future of tomorrow so parents should pay a hundred percent attention on their education. All children want to get full education. Education is the medium, with the help of which the children will take the coming tomorrow forward and make the country prosperous

Every person or child in this world has its own talent. Every child has its own specialty. Do not ever compare any child with other children, because this makes children feel away from their identity and ability. Many times, when children do not get the answers related to them, they start taking help of internet, television and friends, which is very dangerous. This allows the child to go into depression and frustration does not help the child's mental and physical development properly.

Whether your children are as small or grownup, your duty never ends. You must always be living as a good parent and have good care of the children. You have to understand how to love your children and they feel valued and good. You must always understand one thing, discipline does not always mean penalization or punishment. If they do anything wrong, sit and explain them what is wrong. By repeatedly scaring or punishing children, they are frightened in their mind, which can hinder their mental development. Listen to their problems and help solve them. Always motivate the children and after some mistakes, explain what is right and what is the path to success?

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