A Journey Through Time: Embracing the Heart of an 80’s Child

Growing up in the vibrant land of India during the eighties was an experience filled with simplicity and profound lessons. I was that kid who walked to school each morning, carrying with me the wisdom imparted by my parents: “Judge not a person by their occupation, but see them first and foremost as a human being.” This mantra became the compass of my heart, guiding me as I navigated through the diverse tapestry of Indian states, always treating everyone with the respect they deserved, regardless of age or status.

My love for India is boundless, and my dreams for its future have been shaped by the inspiring transformations I’ve witnessed over the years. Though I am an emotional soul, I choose to keep my feelings close to my chest, aware that the world may mistake my sensitivity for weakness.

As an only child, I wasn't handed everything on a silver platter; I learned the value of perseverance and struggle. This contrasts with my children's approach today, who often demand things outright. While I want to provide for them, I also ensure that what they receive is necessary and deserved.

Reflecting on my childhood, I recall when owning a TV, car, or telephone was a significant event. My father brought home our first television when I was eight—an UPTRON without a remote, making me the 'human remote' of the household. The anticipation of watching Mowgli on Doordarshan after completing my homework is a fond memory. My father's strictness, I now understand, was his way of teaching me that not everything comes easily—a valuable lesson from my early years.

My mother, a devoted homemaker, made countless sacrifices in her career and health. From an early age, she imparted to me a profound piece of wisdom: "Aspire not for wealth, but for goodness." This advice, along with the mantra to see humanity in everyone, has deeply influenced my life and continues to guide me.

In my travels across India, I've witnessed the dedication of CISF personnel working diligently to ensure our safety. I make it a point to salute them with a heartfelt "Jai Hind," a gesture that visibly fills them with pride. My appreciation doesn't end there; I extend my gratitude to all airport staff who assist us. On one occasion, I surprised an airline employee with a handwritten thank-you note before he had even assisted me. After clearing security, he sought me out to express his gratitude and requested a photo with me. Despite my usual camera shyness, I obliged. He shared that in his two years of service, no one had ever thanked him in such a personal way.

I also ensure to thank the cabin crew with notes, acknowledging their hard work and time spent away from family. While I expect nothing in return, I believe it's important to show appreciation uniquely each time. And let's not forget the cab drivers; I always engage in conversation with them, making the journey pass swiftly, all while expressing my sincere thanks.

?We must never overlook the contributions of those who serve us, and I wholeheartedly express my gratitude to the armed forces, both active and retired. Interacting with them brings a unique energy and a sense of pride. A heartfelt "Thank You" for their service to our nation goes a long way. A simple smile, a namaste, a salute, or a "Jai Hind" can brighten their day.

My children have embraced this practice, ensuring they pass on a "Jai Hind" to any armed forces personnel they encounter. As I've mentioned, I'm a person of deep emotions, and I feel a surge of pride when our country is represented in any arena. Tears of joy accompany our victories, and a sense of sorrow touches me when I hear of any loss to India, not just in sports but in all aspects.

Ah, how could I forget to mention my other half? My spouse, who also grew up in the '80s, shares my commitment to our society's values of care and generosity, always delivered with a smile. She has been both a steadfast mentor and a wonderful companion throughout our journey together.

As I mentioned earlier, I am quite an emotional person, and my feelings intensify when someone represents our nation in any arena. I am overwhelmed with joy when we triumph, and I am deeply moved when we face a loss. My connection to India’s performance extends beyond just sports; I have been fortunate to witness the 2007 and 2011 Cricket World Cup victories, our first Olympic gold in athletics, the successes of our badminton and hockey stars, and the achievements in wrestling, boxing, archery, and other sports. I applaud the exceptional efforts of our athletes. I am hopeful to see our football team qualify for the World Cup, and if that happens, I assure you I’ll be among the first to attend and support them in person.

Over the past four decades, I have witnessed India’s remarkable transformation in infrastructure, economic growth, technology, entertainment, and the positive evolution of its people. India has a wealth of contributions to make to the world, and I am confident it will do so.

Let’s all look out for one another; the world is a truly magnificent place.

?I’d like to leave you with this thought: “Have faith in your abilities, and trust in the capabilities of others. People don’t desire to make mistakes; they seek opportunities to excel. Give them that opportunity, and you’ll see a world of difference.”

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