Journey of Resilience to Canada???? (2019-2024)

In 2024, I found myself navigating a situation similar to grief. As international policies shifted in Canada, my status as a PGWP holder (temporary worker) underwent a sudden transformation. From "Living the dream" long-term planned future with permit extensions, and college educational opportunities for my wife while waiting for the PR lotto, to having an expiration date to stay in Canada. ??

January 2024 went for me with phases of Denial and Anger since new changes were introduced to the Canadian migration system. ??

February 2024 was my Bargaining and Depression month, I struggled very much in this phase because I thought of myself as very strong and here I was on my knees, being harder on myself for feeling cornered knowing that it was just a trap of my mind, so I went deeper that I need to go. ??

March 2024 was different as I pivoted to women in my closest circle and my Canadian social capital network, they came to remind me what l have done in past years, got me moving and even pushed me into a dream vacation to help me change my mindset. ?? ??

The rebirth occurred after taking some space from the issue itself. My mind shifted into Acceptance mode, gears moved toward optimism and self-worth. I was able to see the 95% of the glass full again and not just focus on that 5% that was not working as planned. ??

To fellow Canadian migrants and temporary workers in Canada facing similar challenges with their families: you're not alone. It's not about YOU; it's about being resilient. Our journey may be tough, but we contribute value, efficiency, and resilience to propel Canada forward in this post-pandemic era ??

And yes, I fell in love with Canada after ~5 years - I have my own little Canadian at home, Eh! ?? ????

Below are two small reads that have helped me .... you are not alone, message me if I can be of help.

1. A story of value - This served as a reminder that my intrinsic value resides within me, and it will naturally manifest where it can create the most impact.

2. Dress me slowly, I'm in a hurry - Luis Fernando Salazar my esteemed mentor, imparted this wisdom to me. As I transition into a new plan, I recognize the power of doing things with purpose, passion and patience.