The Journey

The Journey

Hello,

Have you thought of exploring a new relationship but have felt as an entrepreneur, you’re just too busy to do so?

Have you wanted to apply for an award but were to anxious to go for it?

Has someone ever given you a new dish to try and you immediately cringe?

Have you seen someone different on the street from you and you’re immediately turned off?

We often have a knee-jerk reaction to things.

Our body freezes up, our mind shudders with an immediate no.

This habit of automatically contracting whether it’s big or little is something you may want to reflect on.

As I continue my Mindfulness Meditation Teacher Certification Program, I came across a powerful poem by Pesha Joyce Gertler called “The Healing Time.”

This poem reminds us of the importance of moving away from our habitual “no” responses and embracing the possibilities of saying “yes.”

Today, we explore the profound message of this poem.

As you read it, think about how this connects with yourself as an entrepreneur.

The Healing Time

Finally, on my way to yes

I bump into?all the places

where I said no?to my life

all the untended wounds

the red and purple scars

those hieroglyphs of pain

carved into my skin, my bones,

those coded messages

that send me down

the wrong street

again and again

where I find them

the old wounds?the old misdirections

and I lift them?one by one

close to my heart

and I say holy

holy.

―?Pesha Joyce Gertler

Embracing the Journey to “Yes”

As entrepreneurs, we often encounter moments of contraction, resistance, and fear.

Where you have said “no” to opportunities, growth, or self-expression in your entrepreneurial journey?

Often times we find that the more we retract, the more resist life the more our life leads us to the wrong places.

In the end, these contractions also serve as guideposts, leading us to the areas in our lives and businesses where we need to heal, and where we need to transform.

By embracing these moments and acknowledging the wounds, scars, and misdirections that have shaped us, and are part of the journey, we inevitably create space for healing and growth.

This process allows us to move closer to who we truly are. And helps us?align our actions with our true purpose.

Remember, saying “yes” is not about blindly accepting every opportunity that comes your way. It’s about consciously choosing to embrace the possibilities, overcome limitations, and live a life filled with purpose and fulfillment.

Most of us just have no idea how many times we say no internally, which affects our lives externally.

I encourage you to just look and see.

How many times do you say no in a day?

Wishing you one more yes,

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