Journey from “BELIEVE IN YOURSLEF”TO “OWN YOURSELF”(Imperative Skill for GROWTH)

As I grew up in the corporate ladder, what mattered the most to me was to “believe in myself”. During college days the only weapon I had then was myself - BELIEF -  as I was a under graduate without any work experience.

Lets understand: “Believe in Yourself”

Let me narrate a true story. I was NOT shortlisted by the Centre Manager at a top Business Centre in Mumbai in 1996 where I had applied for an “Sales Executive” Role. But, the Managing Director of the company recommended me against the opinion of the Center Manager. She believed in herself and her experience that I would excel in this role. My MD knew that if I was given proper training I would master the art of selling. Today after 2 decades if I understand the reason for the hire it was the MD’s belief system and experience that I would excel in the role and should be given a chance. 

Take Away:

It is the confidence in yourself and the world around you that makes a difference. If you have positive values, such as empathy, compassion, generosity and understanding you will not only believe in yourself but also excel in your assignments.

Today, when I look back.. and think on this subject “ If I would have OWNED my belief System then just believing in myself what would have been those changes”

How do you OWN YOUR AMAZING SELF.

We need to understand that we are original, and it is perfectly fine not to be part of the CROWD mentality. In my opinion, emotional intelligence, physical and mental health should be on our Top most priority…. I learnt how to OWN myself through my corporate role and responsibilities since 1991 as a customer service executive…Many of the milestones achieved.. was through empathy and social emotional intelligence skills.. Even today while heading a business as a 1st generation entrepreneur .. these skills go a long way..

Take Away:

• Life cannot be copied… compered, We are unique.
• Think beyond.. Out of the box… (In cases many need training interventions to get this right)
• We need to evolve continuously (Have published an article on LinkedIn)
• Voice your thoughts in the most positive way (Must Read article on Empathy)
• Learn your strengths and weakness
• Live life to the fullest with integrity, ethics and being human first
• Self- Calling should be practiced every day

 Summary:

Many questions may arise while reading this article:

• How do you believe yourself in a negative situation?
• How can you stay positive at all times?
• If you are at the crossroads which path you would take?
• How do you voice your opinion with negativity around?
• How important it is to OWN yourself?

In my opinion, owing yourself is possible ONLY through Holistic learnings and approach over a period of time.

Happy to receive your views and thoughts on this article.

Wishing all my LinkedIn members, a Meaningful and an expressive 2020….

 We together can make this planet the most AMAZING PLACE TO BREATHE TO THE FULLEST

Stay connected Archana Vijayan