It's Up to You to Lay Down the Foundation

So often in relationships one or both parties complain about the other person - what he’s acting stubborn about, where she’s retreating from and dismissing, where he could have done better - and they sit arms crossed waiting for the other person to amend their ways. Now, it does “take two to tango,” and at the same time, there’s only one place to start - with you.

What is it that you’re looking for from the other?

• More support? Are you supporting the other?
• More love? How much love are you holding back?
• Consistently respectful, flowing communication? What have you done to increase how much you speak with honor and generosity?

In the process of upleveling yourself, you may require to make some life changes. Create space. To receive more love, it helps to have our vessels free and open. Sometimes our partner will respond lovingly to our shifts and transformations, and sometimes, they put their heads in the sand, refusing to leave the familiar. Here, you get to choose what to do. Only some people are meant to take our entire journey with us.

Treat them kindly and with love, the way you would if you stumbled on a childhood stuffed animal. You remember the love and comfort it brought you for so long. You pass on judging it for failing to understand how to make the journey. You can have gratitude and love for it and leave it in your childhood home.

There is no one size fits all solution to relationships, and the good news is that you get to be the alchemist creating what works for you! Create your powerful decrees about the relationships you desire, call in your ideal best friends, claim your full potential in your life, and only accept your highest choices!

The magic is inside of you. It always was, and always will be. At Encompass Life, we got your back if you would like some help remembering where exactly it is.

Abundant Blessings,

Mark