It’s Sunday let’ talk (non)work - Elderly Care
When my mom fell in bathroom mid-last year, I thought it is simply getting her operated, care of 6 weeks and back to routine. Less that I knew it was start of a fresh chapter in our lives, opening to the care of elderly parent’s world, which is very difficult and emotionally draining, because all through life they have taken care of you.
?Challenges’ I faced as soon as I got her home - ?
?# ?Finding a nursing stuff, who can take care of her medically and emotionally. Trust me there are next to no organisations, and one which are available are very expensive… I wonder how a common man will afford it.
?# Rental Bed to diapers to other accessories, again a task and difficult to arrange. Hospitals don't give you any checklist and off-course money is core to this stuff too
?# Learning from scratch how to take care of daily chores to different tricks and accessories ( holding pipes in bathrooms to anti slippery mats to shampoo wipes)
?# Now when mom got fever, I had no Dr to consult, because no one will come home. So, every secondary illness will lead to first arranging an ambulance and then taking her to show to a Dr., she kept asking me why a Dr. can’t come home… honestly, I don’t have answer to her ask
?# A basic thing like getting ambulance; charges are so high even for a 1km of distance
& the list is long.......
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Early phase of my life, I learnt to take care of my child, balancing everything around, thankfully there are many initiatives by government to organisations, policies from maternity leave to care givers. You can find many talks/articles around this subject, support groups to crèche facilities.
However, today there is clearly very less attention and development around elderly care subject. We need more policies and initiatives to support elders as well as primary care givers. Trust me it is challenging.
I am looking forward to thoughts and resources across the LinkedIn network on this subject. I am sure many of us are facing this in our homes and community-based solution might benefit, each one of us.
If you know any resources, kindly tag them and do share your stories..
?Few places which I found useful –
?1.??????? https://caregiversaathi.co.in/home Bhavana Issar thank you for the initiative
2.??????? https://seniority.in/
Here is the compiled list, which has emerged from our discussion. Let's discuss this more and see how corporates can support employee to take care of elders at home. I will stay on the topic and bring more insights - https://www.emoha.com/ https://eldersindia.com/ https://samarth.community/ https://care24.co.in/ https://www.docgenie.in/ https://www.aldercare.in/ https://tribecacare.com/ https://caregiversaathi.co.in/home
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6 个月I've personally cared for my father and MIL remotely, and each time, it brought me immense satisfaction knowing I provided them with the best love and care possible. Through these experiences, I've gained valuable insights and lessons. I'm happy to share and discuss them on any virtual platform.
Sr SAP Consultant and Architect at Confidential
6 个月So true!! Have been through due to my father's accidental trauma case
Sr. Consultant IT(Banking, ISO 20022, BI, IFMIS, InfoSec, Data Privacy, Data Governance, MDM, XBRL, SDLC)
6 个月It is certainly the world most critical problem as average age increased across the globe. The dimensions for elderly care have fast changed over a period of few decades but it has now taken the serious turn because of breaking family system and weakening of neighborhood social system. The trend of new generation spending time in finding their own place in the moving society and technology despite increased interactions has left the aging population out of these interactions. Emotional bonding have less value for new generation while older generation still finds meaning and value of close relationships. The increasing number of medical cases among elders have further increased need of personal care which require to be managed differently. Growing old age/elders home bring some relief but cannot fill the emotional void. The solution does not straight forward and require a framework of wholesome caring and bridging the gap between different generations. While US has a system of medical care and India has started commercial solution and costless community supported care homes. However, prevention of disabling medical conditions require a regime of awareness among all age groups. Media and Technology can bring relief.
Account Technical Leader at IBM
6 个月Thanks for writing on this sensitive?topic.I have personally experienced?it when my mother was going through it. What I realized is that our parent's generation needs more of our time. They are fully conscious?of our hectic work schedules and start feeling more and more guilty of their dependent condition. My view is that the services part can be handled by professional service providers but every day either in person or remotely one should spend dedicated quality time (not just asking for their health condition?but rather make them talk on their life experiences on various topics). Like that Mastercard ad, "There are some things money can't buy for everything else there's Mastercard"?I have observed that this just simple talking works wonderfully for their emotional wellbeing which in turn helps them for fighting against ailments. Any person getting the feeling that he is relevant in the system is most satisfying.