Its not Others ! but you who find Negativity Interesting...

Who is more negative? People or Us

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Few of us are generally negative,

We always concentrate on the things at hand and try to change what’s not working for us. In other words we see things negatively. We want to change what’s not right for us, May be that’s working well for others. We don’t want to see what is working for others we concentrate on our self

Complain and bicker.

In this position we complain, fight, raise our volume and try to impose our requirements on others. It’s natural. What we forget is that our behavior is not natural for others.

Roadblocks

There will always be a problem pondering at us to solve it, weather we choose to fight it or not. It will give us experience or learning. Or success.

Roadblocks are important for Success –Puneet Gandhar

Gratitude

We fight the problems with a negative mind-set thinking it’s a problem, why not an opportunity to improve our self. If we think this problem is helping us learn something new we will learn and be better us. We should be very thankful to a problem as its helping to mature us. We should be thankful to the universe that it presented us with that issue which needs resolution.

Community!

When we are surrounded with people who only complain and do not resolve or work to resolve the issues then be a guiding force. Talk and find positives in this problematic situation and you will keep yourself positive. Be calm and grateful to god that he helped you take care of this issue and become a leader on your own without exerting much pressure to become a leader. To be a leader is in your hands

What can be done?

Make time and room for yourself.

Immerse in yourself and be away from Negative people. Whenever you converse talk positive of the learning that problem is helping you to learn.

Be assertive that you are learning something new. Be thankful have gratitude and keep your thinking positive. Slowly people will not be negative in front of you. They will know you can solve it. They will be aware that this is not a problem for you. This is an opportunity which is helping you to become better than others.

Personal regrets

In Any situation don’t take things personally, you were born naked and even Gandhi ji didn’t knew about cell phones. You are not perfect and nobody is.

Saying it softly I don’t know is enough for yourself. If not knowing something affects you work towards it else let it go.

Don’t take every matter in your own hands. Do not beat yourself up.

Humor

Try to infuse humor in everything which is serious. If you can or at least look at a situation and the funny aspect of it. Only if you can manage it to keep it non-offensive.

Try to be gentle to yourself and try to laugh thorough the issues rather showing your anger to a problem. A problem is something which help you not to be defeated by it again.

Practice, Gratitude, Self-restraint, Soft tone, Gentleness, Kindness and Love!

You will have the confidence to fight anything!