Its not happy new year unless It is happy new life.

Hello Everyone,

Today is the last day of the year and we may be busy in wishing everyone happy new year in advance with different and creative ways on whatsapp, on facebook, on Twitter. I mean on all social sites. So I thought to write something that meant everything. As already I have wrote beautiful article called New Year resolution last year so here is the link if you wish to read again https://www.dhirubhai.net/pulse/new-year-resolutions-yogesh-pawar?trk=mp-author-card . This time also I have tried to give something better than so many things. Hence It’s my humble request you all to go through it & give your comments and share if you like it.

Now coming to the point, do we really think that just wishing New Year can become new life, new achievement, new happiness or it just a New Year and it is the same old life. Even many more might have started wishing one week prior so that they can plan party and buzz and enjoy this year end & wishing all happy New Year.

But I am thinking that each one of us is busy in wishing New Year to everyone because the year is changing but do we really ask ourselves that does it really going to change us, or does it going to change the situation in our life, or does it going to change the way we are now.  And if it does not then what is the use of wishing New Year when we know nothing is going to be new except the number in years. Or just for the sake of changing a calendar and having one more reason to buzz. And if it is, then none but we make ourselves fool by wishing everyone happy new year like a mad in-spite of knowing that nothing more is going to be change except the age in number. Now take an example if someone gives us a same book with a different cover page and we feel happy that we have something new to read. But what will happen when we come to know that it is the same book which we have already read and what change is the only cover page of the book. How funny it looks. and the same happen when we wish new year everyone in-spite of knowing that except the number, rest all life will be the way it is.

Hence I thought to illustrate more I will tell you one short story. Now in order to truly understand this, I will tell you a small story. Once upon a time there were two friends called Suresh and Ramesh who were studying in same class. Both families were having an equal financial status in society and are equally emotional but the difference is , Ramesh was too clever as he used to get more than 90% in all semester but in other hand Suresh was dumb as he never used to cross 45 % in single semester. But whenever inquired him about his dumbness Suresh used to give many excuses to family and professor. But after all professor is a professor who’s job is to teach student in such way & build a great character that will fight with all difficulties and gain the success in life. Hence, one day professor were teaching in class on the topic called new life, so he thought that it is the right time to make Suresh understand the realty. Therefore he asked him to stand up in the class. The moment Suresh stands up as the professor asked him to do so, rest all class including Ramesh was started staring and laughing at him. Looking at this scenario Suresh felt awkward.

Now professor played one trick, he said to Suresh that suppose from now onwards he will change everything about Suresh, professor said that he will change Suresh name and will start calling him by the topper name in class, then professor said that he will change Suresh hair style, then he will change Suresh address, then he will change his cloths, then he will change Suresh residence, so in short the professor said that he is going change everything about Suresh. Because he was always keeps complaining about everything what he has got by birth. But after listening to this all, Suresh was confused about the next moves of professor. So professor asked Suresh that after changing everything about him, does he guarantee that he will achieve the highest score in class. Now the entire class started seriously looking at Suresh as what he was going to answer.

And Suresh said NO to this question because he knew that everything change outwardly but nothing change inwardly.

Moral of the story We can change everything but if we don’t change ourselves then same experience will perpetuate itself over and over again because everything outwardly change but nothing inwardly change.

We think for a moment after reading this story that yes its right that everything change outwardly but nothing change inwardly so how come Suresh may top the class, yes you are right so I am

Because we are on the exact place where we see Suresh now, The moment we see the year is changing, we start wishing everyone happy New Year in-spite of knowing that nothing more is going to be change compare to last year, no more happiness is going to be experience, no more growth is going to be acquire except the number in age. Because the year is changing but it does not change anything in us. and rest all year goes like last year. So mark my word friend, the moment we change ourselves there will be no need to wish New Year when everyday will be new in our life.

Hence this time don’t just wish Happy New Year but change yourself and make happy new life. In last but not least, I have only one request to all my dear friends that we don’t know how much time we have, we don’t know how many birth we take. But all that we know is, if we do not change now than it does not matter how many New Year we have in our life just to wish people. Because what matters is how we live, not how many years we live. Happy New Year will be never happy and new until and unless we have happy new life.

Therefore, change you all bad habits, all non-essential, all non-worthy things into good habits, into essential habits, into worthy things. Means don’t just get disconnected with world by buzzing with your friends and celebrating New Year but feel connected by spending your time to the purpose of your life. 

Understand that it is time for change because anyways year is going to be change. So the time for wishing has gone and the time for doing and changing has come.

Hence this time don’t jut say Happy New Year but make HAPPY NEW LIFE!