It's Not Always Nice to be Nice!

As coaches, we're taught to be compassionate, empathetic, and sensitive to our clients' needs.?

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And rightfully so – understanding and kindness can often pave the way for profound breakthroughs.?

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But what about those times when a softer touch just doesn't cut it?

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I've found, through both personal and professional experience, that there are moments when a firmer, more direct approach is necessary.?

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It's not about being harsh or unkind, but rather about delivering the truth, even when it's uncomfortable.

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I recall the times when my mum would be brutally honest with me. She would give me the proverbial kick up the bum on many occasions.?

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Or when I was in prison, feeling low and victimised, it was my mate Arun who told me what I didn't want to hear. And yes, it pissed me off to hear it.?

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But ultimately, it was those words that made me sit up and take notice.

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When we're stuck in a rut or struggling with challenges like addiction, it's easy to shift blame elsewhere – onto the system, onto circumstances, onto anything but ourselves.?

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But true progress begins when we take ownership of our thoughts, feelings, and actions.

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During my time behind bars, it would have been easy to blame the system for my predicament.

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But instead, I chose to take responsibility and commit to change within myself.?

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Sometimes, being cruel to be kind means confronting uncomfortable truths and pushing ourselves to grow.

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So, I ask you: What home truths do you need to hear today??

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What excuses are holding you back from reaching your full potential??

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It's only when we confront these truths head-on that we can begin to make meaningful progress.

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Remember, it's not always easy, but sometimes, being tough is the kindest act of all.

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