It's all about your Perspective!

As I move forward to share my next chapter of learning, I would like to discuss the importance of crafting a perspective.

The lens through which you view life, comprehend your circumstances, and adapt to your resources is shaped by your perspective.

As a result, it has a significant impact on your overall outlook on life and your ability to navigate the challenges that come your way.

Do you agree? Well, allow me to share my personal experience, as I am not one to make generalizations based solely on my own encounters.

Each living being on this planet, whether human or non-human, possesses a unique perspective that is shaped by their experiences and circumstances. Even if two individuals find themselves in the same situation, their responses and interpretations of the experience may differ significantly due to their individual perspectives. It is through the lens of one's perspective that they perceive and make meaning of the world around them, ultimately shaping their behavior and emotions.

Consider this scenario: if someone pokes you, their action has no direct relation to your friend or any other third person. The person who poked you did so to you alone, not your friend. While you may understandably become annoyed with that individual, your friend's irritation is an example of "The Power Of Influence". Their response is influenced by your reaction to the situation, and their feelings are a result of seeing you treated poorly.

However, before involving yourself in a situation like this, it's essential to consider why you feel the need to do so. You don't have any knowledge of how your friend may have treated this person in the past or in your absence. It's unwise to pass judgment on individuals based on the experiences of others, as it could potentially harm your relationship with them. Instead, it's best to take a step back, assess the situation objectively, and determine if involving yourself would be beneficial or if it could lead to unnecessary conflict. By practicing mindfulness and approaching situations with a level head, you can make informed decisions that align with your values and goals.

My point is simple: everyone is doing their best to achieve their goals. While some may succeed, others may stumble and experience failure. It's important to remember that failures can be stepping stones to success. During these moments, it's crucial to extend a helping hand to colleagues and friends, providing support and guidance to help them improve their chances next time. Doing so without expecting anything in return can create a sense of happiness within, knowing that you've made a positive impact on someone's journey. I've personally helped many of my friends in this way, and it's been a fulfilling experience for me.

By following this approach, we can avoid pointing fingers at others and complaining. Instead, we can share our experiences and offer support to others before they face failure. By doing so, we can help them succeed in their venture and also find inner peace within ourselves. By approaching each situation with a mindset of support and cooperation, we can create a positive and uplifting environment that encourages growth and success for all involved.

Let's start improving the perspective of viewing & understanding every situations. Making a resolution to stop complaining about anything around you should be your goal starting from tomorrow. This shift in mindset can alter the way others perceive you. I have already taken steps towards this change and I am wondering who else is willing to join me?

That's for Now! See you in next Article :)