IT’S ALL OUR FAULT

Everyday my children try new things, push themselves, and are not constrained by boundaries and what they SHOULD be doing...because they don't know. 

They are free to dream and to explore themselves, as people, without fear of judgement.

As we grow up we often lose that. We are constrained by what society thinks we SHOULD do. By how other people think we SHOULD behave.

But why should THEY decide the person we are? Why should THEY decide the life we live?

It's in OUR control. It's OUR gift to choose the life we want - we just have to listen to ourselves and chose our own path. 

Because it's OUR fault...everything is OUR fault...the good stuff that happens, the bad stuff that happens - it's ALL down to us...and it all depends on the things we CHOSE.

Nothing is forced on us - it doesn't matter our upbringing, it doesn't matter where we live, it doesn't matter what our parents told us growing up.

Only WE can decide how our life goes. Only WE can decide our life's story. 

No one else gets to do that.

Chose YOUR story.


Jim Doyle

Executive coach | Midlife mentor | Clearing the history of the past | accelerating your success and wellbeing | Energy healer |

6 年

I stopped "shoulding" a while ago...

回复

要查看或添加评论,请登录

Annette Ferguson MA(Hons) CA的更多文章

  • What Is An Asset?

    What Is An Asset?

    Almost every one of us has already heard of the term asset. It is usually paired with another person, an act of…

    1 条评论
  • What Happens If I Don't Pay My Personal Tax?

    What Happens If I Don't Pay My Personal Tax?

    There are many reasons you might not be able to pay your taxes by the appointed deadline. Whether it may be a financial…

    1 条评论
  • What Is The VAT Threshold?

    What Is The VAT Threshold?

    Value-added tax (VAT) is a kind of tax that is levied on consumption rather than income. It occurs when a product is…

  • 4 Key Advisors A Business Owner Needs As The Business Scales

    4 Key Advisors A Business Owner Needs As The Business Scales

    As a business grows, a business owner will need more help professionally and personally to continue its operations, a…

  • What Does Furlough Workers Mean In The UK?

    What Does Furlough Workers Mean In The UK?

    The pandemic does not only affect the health and safety of society. It is also crippling the economy of all countries…

  • Questions To Ask Your Accountant - Checklist

    Questions To Ask Your Accountant - Checklist

    As your company grows, you will most likely want to hire a professional to do the real work: managing your finances. A…

  • VAT Reverse Charge Including Construction Industry Scheme: When and How To Use

    VAT Reverse Charge Including Construction Industry Scheme: When and How To Use

    The VAT Reverse Charge (for buildings, construction services) is simply the change of how VAT is handled in the UK…

  • UK Spring Budget 2021 by Chancellor Rishi Sunak

    UK Spring Budget 2021 by Chancellor Rishi Sunak

    Springtime is just around the corner, and we all know what that means – budgets! UK Spring Budget 2021 and grants…

  • What Is Quantitative Easing?

    What Is Quantitative Easing?

    The UK economy is, without a doubt, struggling due to the backlash of the extended Coronavirus lockdown period. Just…

  • What is Good Value Pricing?

    What is Good Value Pricing?

    In the 1980s, Richard Thaler, the godfather of behavioural economics, came out with the Beer on the Beach Experiment…

    1 条评论

社区洞察

其他会员也浏览了